Will you changed for your love one?

China
January 13, 2010 2:55am CST
In a love relationship, there might be something that your love one doesn't like about. Like me, i don't like my husband smoke or drink, i think if he love me, he will quit it for me, but it's so hard for him to do it, but he is taking some progess, he reduct the number if cigarette. And he likes my to be chubby, but i like to be skinny, but because i love him, i am starting to eat more. What about you?
4 responses
@stand87 (664)
• Bulgaria
13 Jan 10
There are always bad habits and other stuff that should be changed. There always will be things we would like to change in the person we love. But it should be team work. We can't expect from the other one to change his personality when we're not able to do the same thing. It's important to know what YOU like and dislike in your partner and what HE/SHE likes or dislikes in YOU. What about me? I'm able to change myself. But I want to see that my partner knows that have things to change too.
• China
14 Jan 10
Tha's fair enough!Thanks for reading and responding my discussions!
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
13 Jan 10
Yes if it is for the good of the relationship & myself I am always willing to change for the person I love. Willingly if my partner will suggest if its the best of both of us.
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• China
14 Jan 10
Good for you!Thanks for reading and responding my discussions!
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
14 Jan 10
I think the love will make a person change a lot. I am not the exception. As everybody is different. So we have to learn to how to adjust to each other when we live together. I don't think it is a kind of losing yourself. Because you do it willingly because of love. My husband and I are so different because we come from different places. Our diet and dialects are different. But we change ourselves to each other step by step. I love China
@Hubfee (665)
• Thailand
13 Jan 10
Well I'd rather adjust than changing. And of course, not myself moving, adjusting alone but also the one I love should treat me the same. The price of love is to be loved in return.
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• China
14 Jan 10
Of course!Thanks for reading and responding my discussions!