how do u think the relationship?
By owntuilp
@owntuilp (422)
China
January 13, 2010 7:52pm CST
how do u think the relationship betweein 2 people who are not stay in the same city.and in a long time ,they would be not go into the church for weding so they had to earn enough money and make the life goes on first.and do u real think tlhat u always aware love is perfect when u would be find the guy/girl who is ur right person.thank u for sharing first.
2 responses
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
15 Jan 10
Hi owntulip,
I think it would help if you could avoid using short text messaging here and I am sure a lot of members will respect you for that. Besides, it will also be good for you to learn the language more correctly.
As to your post here, let me just say that Love is never about destiny - it's about empowerment, realization, choice and learning.
Many times, it's not so much of how much someone suffered in love - it's about what you come out of it and surmount those challenges. Not everyone needs higher learning in love; you just need to know enough to make your relationship fulfilling.
Take care and have a nice day.
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
15 Jan 10
If you always reckon that you live a pathetic life, you always will.
I wondered what kind of help you need. To me, only you can help to change yourself - nobody else can because this is self affliction.
What happens is that you prefer to wait for solution in a problem that doesn't drop you a solution.
You want someone to save you from your perceived 'pathetic destiny' - but I can tell you, there isn't such a person. If you don't have initiative to change yourself, nothing will happen.
What likely would happen is that you would log off your computer and resume leading a 'pathetic life'.
And I tell you, you don't have to live with such a destiny.
You hold the key to resolve your misery. This key doesn't lies with somebody else.
Take care.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
15 Aug 10
I love my wife who was my soul mate lover for ever.We loved for 3 years and still we love as husband and wife.