Am I selfish?

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Earlier afternoon I chat with my husband, he works out of the country, so were using web cam for us to see each other on screen. Then I open up with him about the vacation that he had promised me last year, He'd promised that me and my baby can have a vacation to my hometown by this year,so earlier while chatting I open up with him, but instead he got very angry, and he was saying why is that I am to exited to have a vacation ? he said that I am selfish,because I do not consider him in making decisions. I said that he had promised me and I did promised to my mom that we will have our vacation by this year, my mom wants to see and bond with my son, its been more than 2 years since we left my hometown. And beside he's working far from us, me and my son are staying with his parents for more than 2 years with out him. aren't he is the selfish?..what is your opinion mylotters...should I go on vacation even my partner didn't allow me? or just do as what he told to avoid arguments?