How will you feel if another woman posted their pics of your bf & her in FB/FS?
@Marzha_Martina (23)
Philippines
January 14, 2010 1:48pm CST
This was the greatest my boyfriend and I had in almost a year of our relationship. I went frantic when there was one lazy afternoon, a normal day for me, got bored, so I went to open my FS and FB (don't have "Who's Viewed me/my profile" as of the time this was written), then I noticed my FS, there was one strange lady viewed me, I even said to myself, no I don't know her coz she looks like a horse. I don't have horse-looking friends back in highschool or back in my hometown, they are all pretty. So anyway, I viewed her back but didn't care at all, her profile is boring. Around 8 PM same day, I received a message in FS which says "Hi, I don't know you. Thanks for accepting". In my mind...huh?! Excuse me! Coz I didn't even bothered to accept any friend request. To my surprise, when I clicked back the "Back to Messages", my God! She changed her primary picture (which will appear as thumbnail in the message you sent in FS) to a couple picture, her and.... my God! my BF! I felt my pulse racing! And I hurriedly took a closer to the pic, and yes, confirmed! It's my bf... still a little thin at that time and pic somehow looks old and scanned (hahaha!poor thing). And yes, you guessed it right, I burst out into anger to my BF and indeed, I broke up with him but reconciled after 2 days when I also ponder... why would I feel I lose? When it's so obvious that its a pic awhile ago already, and I've seen my bf serious this time (I hope). But how about you girls/guys? How would you react if ever?
2 responses
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
Horse-looking? haha..your really mad at this girl. But hey, if you say that it was the past, then why be affected by it?
As for me, I would feel my pulse race as well, lol...but I would talk to my boyfriend first before doing anything harsh.
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@Marzha_Martina (23)
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
Hahaha! Yeah, I'm really so mad!!! The nerve! Imagine, I wanted to laugh coz I'm so angry, imagine I'd go crazy coz I really hated what she'd done posting a pic when it was a year ago my bf explained. Huhu! Grrr!!!
@ravend (658)
• Malta
14 Jan 10
Marzha! Wake up! She is obviously a sad loser who can't get over her ex. Or maybe someone who had a crush with him and never was even his gf! Calculate her actions well, she contacted you and added you, just so that YOU can see the photo of you together. She probably sensed that you are very insecure and worked on the hopes of having you fight. React intelligently.
If I were you, I'd answer her back this: "Hi dear, I see from your profile pic that you know so and so! That's great, it's nice to meet friends of my boyfriend. So, how did you meet him? Shall I say hi to him from you?"
By this answer, you would show her that you have no inse curities she can use to attack you. Good luck with your life dear, and BE A STRONG WOMAN!!!!
@ravend (658)
• Malta
14 Jan 10
Hehehe! Your bf is a sweety! Be proud of him! Ignore her, if she contacts you again, tell her what I told you... BE STRONG... btw, if I were you, I'd put a profile status on fb that says sth like: I really love my Hunny Bun, we're off to the phillippines,... or something like that. ;)
@Marzha_Martina (23)
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
Yes you're right, if only its not that unethical I would really post the link of her FS here, haha! Dig this: SHE DISABLED THE PRIVACY! Gaaaaarrrr!!! She really wanted me to see the whole album (but I admit she won at this coz I really did viewed the album and that's what she wants). Hours before that when she viewed my profile, her profile is private. But then at that night when she sent me a message, she is suddenly "All can view?" huh?! Gosh! How I wish she would just evaporate! And I kept on nagging about this with my bf, but... you know guys, I got a great treat then so I'd calm down: a treat to Panglao Island, Philippines. Whew! BFs really knows how to tame their GFs...hehe!
