Adultery????
@marketingmother (95)
United States
January 14, 2010 6:22pm CST
if you are with someone whether it be husband/wife
and you are thinking of someone else, would you consider that adultery?
i do not but then again i am not married.lol
but i think using our imagination can keep the spark going in the current relationship. and i said thinking.. not acting upon.
4 responses
@warvial (1146)
• Singapore
15 Jan 10
It is not but it is a platform towards adultery. Human imagination can be something very powerful and we might end up committing what we have been thinking of. But to me, thinking about something but did not happened in the end is not adultery, I would term it as having second thoughts.
@marketingmother (95)
• United States
15 Jan 10
second thoughts...i like that. but yes i am talking about harmless or so it seems at the time. harmless thoughts of another and it could just be a likeness to the type of person you are attracted to. i love men with goatee's...so i always look at a man with a nice tight goatee. i can't help but think...man i would love to kiss him....but i never do.lol but it sure makes me smile and put pep in my step..:)
@dreamr802 (985)
• United States
15 Jan 10
I kind of agree with you. As long as you aren't talking to that person (like romantically or flirting) and/or acting upon it then it isn't cheating or adultery...I'm not married...but maybe when I do get married I will have a different viewpoint on it lol.
@marketingmother (95)
• United States
15 Jan 10
just strictly in the mind...not actually talking to anyone. you are just thinking about someone or their likeness. yes it would be different if it were someone you had a friendship with and spent time with on a daily basis. then definitely adultery...after you crossed the line. :p
@marketingmother (95)
• United States
15 Jan 10
wow...well i will let you wear the white dress because whoever ends up with you is going to be one lucky person....hang on to that belief. thank you for sharing.
