Who is guilty ? your hus or wife, or theirs lovers if they cheating on you?

yeah, both should be blamed.once cheater cant be a cheater always.there are many cases lover caught red handed and dumped, but he again changed and let his girl know bout that and convinced.lust is totally different from love. There are some people who love their wife,cant live without wife and they vist p****tutes.

The cheating partner, and the person the partner is cheating with are both equally guilty, because it takes two to have an affair. The only person who is not guilty is the one who is being cheated on, because it is not their choice to be cheated on, they are not involved, and they did not choose to be in the mess that their partner and the other person put them in.

Both parties are guilty. I don't feel it is right to place full blame on either party. The spouse knew what they were doing was wrong and so does the other party.

Hi icesmile, The person who does the cheating is guilty. They can blame in on the other person or that the marriage is not good but the bottom line it was their choice and therefore their fault. Once a cheater always a cheater? I really don't know.

Hi ice. Well, for me I will blame both of them. But I'll blame my woman more, since I'll kill her lover immediately. lol. But for your statement, "Once a cheater, always a cheater"??? NOOOO, I don't agree. I used to be a scandal lover back then, until i met my 'soon to be wife'. It sounds too cute, but I do love her soooo much. So then, no, there's no forever cheater.

Both are guilty! They have made choice so they are both guilty! If it was me, i will give a second chance to the husband but before that, will hurt him (like don't let him see me during some weeks or others things like that, and if during this time, he continue to go with this girl so no need second chance xD) to let him know how is hurt when your heart is broken, i will taking a reveange! And then, i will forgive him for the second and unique chance. If he do it again, i will never see his f*ck**g face and act like i don't know him.

Dear icesmile, We all have our own demons, sometimes. If I may just add a little here, I'd just like to say that there's no real true wrong in a relationship. It takes 2 to tango, yet it takes 2 to get entangled - no spark no fire. Other than starting on the wrong note and choosing a wrong partner, I just do not see the other party falling, had the relationship not gone wrong somewhere along the way. In the first place, would you buy that a man can literally throw away what he had believed and built over the years with his love of his life into the arms of another for no rhyme(s) or reason(s). Likewise, would a devoted and faithful wife have even any slight inclination of another if she had not been disappointed, frustrated or failed by the man she loved? Which route will allow one the liberty to be freed from karmic, emotionally-captive and unfulfilled relationships? I am sure if everyone has the answer here, I am sure it will definitely worth the millions and certainly would be the antidote for tomorrow's separations and divorces. Take care.

Hi icesmile! i am thinking they both are guilty. No one person should take all the blame but truthfully, I would blame my partner more than anyone else. He is the one that I'm supposed to be able to trus..not a complete stranger or even a friend. It's him that is supposed to be the loyalist of the loyal..so for me..my blame would be mostly on him.

They are both to blame for having the affair. He knew what he was doing and the women more than likely knew he was married and still had an affair she is not blameless either.

The husband is the one who has made a commitment to you so teh blame should go on him. Often the other woman has no idea she is the other woman. If she knows and still goes ahead with the relationship, shes not a great person but that's not the wife's problem. I think everyone has the capacity to cheat so I agree with once a cheater always a cheater. Some people will think they would never cheat but I think in the right circumstances anybody could fall into that trap.