What I do now?
@svaishali1985 (135)
India
January 15, 2010 4:05am CST
Hello friends,
What I do now? I am married women I also have 2 years son. everything is happy. But in my family my mother in low not accepted me as daughter in low.And because of that reason my life is so board. what I do now for happy life. Plz give suggetion
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3 responses
@emjsar15 (140)
• Philippines
23 May 10
you can do nothing but to ignore of what treatment have you got to your mother in law. The most important thing is, you and your husband loves each other also with your son.Try to be nice always, whatever you see to her, take a lot of patience, serve her if you want to be close to her. Show her that even they didn't like you you're still nice to them and ready to accept their negative attitude towards you. Just take this simple reminder from me, respect always the mother of your husband, treat her also as your real mother and for that the love for you by your husband will never be destroyed and taken by anybody even your mother in law.
@svaishali1985 (135)
• India
24 May 10
Thanks for response friend. I like urs thoughts and i will try to keep them as u say.
@svaishali1985 (135)
• India
23 May 10
ya we are staying in same house and my mother-in-law not educated and our arrange marriage. thanks for response.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
23 May 10
Are you a graduate or what is your qualification? Perhaps your mother inlaw is threatened because you are an educated modern girl and imagines that you may not respect her..You just be kind, do not chat too much with her and go doing your business. THings will all fall into place. If it is an arranged marriage, she should certainly accept you. One small tip I can give you-- this is what my mother told me when I was a newly married person. Do not get into any unncessary arguments with your husband or mominlaw. Talk less and there would be very few problems.
@sachii315 (488)
• Japan
15 Jan 10
Hi svaishali1985! I think you should just go on with your life without minding what others think about you. If she could not accept you, then be it, at least you could just be nice to your mother-in-law. Just don't expect they'll do the same thing to you, since you said that they don't accept you. We cannot please everybody, so we can't make everyone like us. I think there would be a time that she would accept you, just wait for it and be patient. Happy mylotting!
