What is the first thing you do after having a big quarrel with your best friend?
By akhilgupta26
@akhilgupta26 (103)
India
January 15, 2010 4:38am CST
Well majority would delete their friends number from their phone book..
Others would even seek a revenge..
What would you do ??
5 responses
@KMaroon (266)
• India
12 Mar 10
Hi Akhilgupta
First thing I don't think I quarrel with my friends I always try to avoid quarrels and I don't like to do so. If it really happens with me, I will be quiet for some days and don't talk with the friend and if the friend who quarelled with me is willing to continue friendship with me I will definitely continue friendship. If I am responsible for the quarrel I will say sorry for that. Have a nice day.
@Greentea812 (133)
• China
11 Mar 10
Hi there interesting topic! We all have such experience by quarreling with friends,sometimes we can get back the relationship ,sometimes we can't. that depends on the nature of particular person.I am not a person who often lose temper and throw tantrum to others,I just have some small quarreling with my friends and we can easily recover from that.but if somebody make me lose temple and disappointed me a lot,I will cut down the relationship with him forever.
@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
hi akhilgupta26,
I would definitely take some break and be away from her...so far away.
Because sometimes, we need to breathe from situation like that, and have a peace of mind. Then, if I'm ready, I'll analyze what happened and what are that things that caused our misunderstanding. If it is something that can still be resolved, I would definitely put my guards down and make-up with her/him. But if it was something that was so severe and she/he caused it...I will just let time decide for it, if we are still destined to be friends again.![](/Content/images/emotes/thumbup.gif)
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@pentagan12 (757)
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
I normally express my feelings, especially my anger towards her by looking for another friend to talk to. Yes, sometimes, I may say bad words against a certain friend but I know that it will only be temporary. I have also came up to the point of deleting the number of my friend in my cellphone in order to stop the communication and to avoid further quarrels with the use of cellphone.
@jain_ashish (91)
• India
16 Jan 10
well it depends on how big the quarrel was.... if it was over some petty issue, we would understand and probably after a few days/weeks, things would be back to normal.... but if it is a REAL heated argument and u say all the nasty things .... i would not want to go back to him/her... it would always be at the back of my mind (damn my sharp memory:P).... and nag me... it wont be a very comforting thing for the either of us.... so would keep it down to just the routine stuff..
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