Wrong .....!
By leateagee
@leateagee (3667)
China
January 15, 2010 8:36am CST
Mistakes! Missed! Wrong!
It's difficult when people blame you for something that you know you are right but at the end you're wrong.
It's difficult to apologize when you are not used to because you always make sure that whatever you do is correct and almost perfect!
Most people are "not used to being wrong". Are you? How do you feel?
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6 responses
@varron (453)
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
Being wrong or right depends upon the process called LOGICAL REASONING,logic is the art of correct thinking and therefore guides us to know what is right or wrong...what is true or false...Logical reasoning will process raw information to a systematic way of processes to determine the truth. These raw information is very much broad and considers a lot of things... An example of these is about the information of the culture that was accepted by the individual..In some way or another there are culture that for you it is right but for me it is wrong..or for you it is wrong but for me it is right...that is because there are several culture that exist..and sometimes people have different culture(culture as an example).
To settle this we should have to select from love,respect and pride. Sometimes even if we know that we are right in some manner, we need to swallow our pride and just accept for ourselves that we are wrong even if we are no because of love and respect.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
11 Feb 10
I have to admit your thoughts are deeper than what I've thought of. Thank you so much for sharing this great comment! Cary on!
@Khadimhussainsubhpot (106)
• Pakistan
15 Jan 10
It is better to admit one's mistakes before other exaggerate it. Making a mistake is not a mistake. Repeating a mistake is indeed a mistake, or rather a blunder. Don't not let you ego prevent you from taking right action that will surely help you correct your wrongs, helping you avoid many more mistakes in days to come. One must remember that Man is error-prone. Yes, We must make our mistakes a great learning experience to benefit ourselves in times ahead.
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@kellyjeanne (1576)
• United States
16 Jan 10
My personal experience has been that all my life I've always been the bigger person and apologized for any wrong that I had done to the point that - at the age of 51 - I literally cannot apologize anymore. Mostly because nobody has ever apologized to me. I've always felt that was a bit onesided and very selfish and immature of the other person. Oh, gosh darn, I'm lying. Shucks! Maybe two people have apologized to me (not kidding! Literally 2 people!) in my whole life! Gosh, am I a liar or what?
Anyway, it's gotten to the point that even if I know I'm wrong I really have a hard time apologizing on an emotional and mental level. This has made me very angry. Why am I always the bigger person and what does that make the other people in my life?
Purrs,
Catwoman=^..^= & Mija
@glords (2614)
• United States
20 Jan 10
I apologize for all the people in your life. I'm sorry! Its not fair, perhaps the people in your life don't deserve an apology. On the other hand, if you don't continue to try your best to be fair bigger you might pass on your emotional baggage to another person like yourself who is just trying to do their best, and that would be sad.
@glords (2614)
• United States
20 Jan 10
Interesting... I thought making mistakes was part of being human. I try to refrain from making a stand on anything where I'm not sure about the truth. I try to never push my beliefs on others as being "right" or assume that someone else is "wrong." I try to keep on open mind because everyone makes mistakes. I think the trick is to admit to yourself that as long as you're alive you're still learning. No one is perfect.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
you are Right this time, but i guess thats life, we learn from our mistakes, apologizing is good, dont get it wrong
@leateagee (3667)
• China
24 Jan 10
Aha, at least I'm right now. Indeed its life, it's just that as we grow older and wiser, its difficult to accept mistakes, and especially to apologize. Thanks for responding =)
@jakie18 (233)
• Philippines
15 Jan 10
For me if I think I'm right and they think I'm wrong then "LET IT BE" otherwise you will just argue on a nonsense matter. Apologized if you've hurt someone and if there's a need to but if there's none then so be it.Just never forget to listen to every opinion and take it positively.Take their criticism constructively and be yourself.You know yourself so never get affected.keep your composure and stay calm.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
11 Feb 10
Thanks Jakie18. You seem to be a well composed person. You have a good attitude towards situation. Thanks again!