meddling with two boyfriends?

Yes, this is going to sound so painfull, but she need to break off with both of them. She need to learn to stand on her own two feet. If those two find out what she is doing, she is going to have more problems, that she can handle. Men do not like to be used that way. They call this kind of reltionships a rebound, and it can do more damage than the breaking up with her first boyfriend did. Just tell her to stay without a boyfriend for a while. She is really looking for trouble on this one.

Mending a problem with another problem will just make it worst not to mention she is fooling two guys. Taking advantage from these two different guys will just create bigger problem. What if she get caught? A jealous man is most vulnerable to do stupid things when he gets hurt.. He could hurt your friend once he catch her.. Just focus on her job and stick with friends around her.. Let her heal the wound naturally..

Just Wait....Time will tell. other advises: tell them the truth or never let ay of them know the the last day of life.

You better tell your friend that sailor sailing in two boats never reaches the shore. The day will come she had to repent for this act. You ask your friend to leave both these persons because one is 51 years old who is nearly twice the age and the other guy is of same age but financially poor. Ask your friend to select a good person of moderate age with good job and settle in life.

When you played with fire you'll get burn. Sooner or later she will get caught with her two timing. If she doesnt love anyone of them, then dump both of them. Or she have to choose one and be faithful to him. A jealous man can make horrible things unexpectedly, it only shows that he doesnt trust his partner thats why his jealous. Before its too late, she have to make up her mind or else suffer the consequences.

I say she should break up with the 2 guys before a bigger problem occurs. Either tell them the truth or find a peaceful way to break it off. If the 2 guys finds out that they are being manipulated, everyone will get hurt and nobody will get positive result out of this, no one will be happy.

First off it isn't good to have two boyfriends. the first man who is 51 is jealous which is a very bad trait in a relationship and i feel he is a bit too old for her. the second man has no stable job which isn't a very good sign at all for a real relationship. a relationship is based on trust and by having two men at once is very deceiving. i would leave these two relationships and find someone i could tell the truth to and be committed to. a person who really loves you will be there for her, but she cannot go on lying to them or herself. best to her

It's to be in the situation where you're doing because you want to cover up the pain you've been through from the last broke up. But I don't think it's really the main reason. I believe that you cannot leave them both if you totally don't love the person is that because you want to get something from them or they help you a lot whether emotionally but most of all financially. Try to think if you really don't love them, that if you really want to stick with them due to money. But always remember the consequences of what your doing they just not one person but two, you might don't want to lose even one of them. Think think and much better decide if to stick with the old or the young one's. I think for that long period of relationship you also have any heart for them. I don't believe you don't even have feelings for them. Be careful to fall there to one place. You might lose them both and once that's happen if they gone that's the time you will realized the you love them both. Financially matters it's always there no matter you don't want to get involve it. It will always comes out.

There is an old saying in our Gujarati "Doodh ma ne dahi ma pag na rakhi shakay" Translation:- You can't have milk and curd at once. If you take them at once it will be harmful to your health. That girl have to take decision, where she should go. I think she have go with the once where she would get more love,feelings. As money can't buy these things. But yes feelings can inspire some one to earn more. Now above all, tell me one thing you are talking about your friend or that girl is you yourself?

she knows what she is doing, she is not loving both guys she is just using them to fill her financial problems. so, nothing to worry just tell her to be careful with this Materialistic Game.