do you hate your parents?

Hi rosey19, I don't hate my parents...I just don't like it when they don't trust me enough when it comes to accomplishing things or making decisions in life. All my life I just followed my parents, I go to their liking even on the choice of clothes to wear when I was still a kid until I reach my adolescent stage. Because of that I had difficulty making decisions myself when I'm alone. THis is a bad habit. In my case I just do hope my parents trust me more because I'm alread old now and I know i'm at the age where I should make the decisions to myself already. Nice topic you got here rosey, happy mylotting.

well yes once i also started thinking that my dad hates me ,he use to beat me ,throw me out of the house..& many things ,....but now i realised that all that he used to do was for my welfare. sometimes they have to take strict action as we dnt understand if they speak sweetly with us....they realy care for us & our futhure...they want use to be responsible & want use to make tough .so that any point of time if there is hard days on us we can fight those day...they cant be with us for whole life. so we should understand that as no 1s prents would like there childs to fail at any point of there life. so instead of taking there strict action negatively we should take it positively & try to understand them & make them prould...i use to hate my dad but now reaching @ 21 . i realized why he use to beat me scold me thats was for my good & today i can prouldly say that because of that strictness of my dad im graduate & earning a good some...u might feel bad now when they scold but i ur near futhure u will realize that they where right.

Hate, maybe is not the word I´d choose, but, I have always had crossed fellings about my mother, because, I felt, that all of her care and love go to my older brothers, and somehow, it always made me feel so insecure about myself and my posibilities in life, it took me years to left these feelings behind, and, I am afraid, that they hurt me still.

I never hate my parents. And I will always love them forever. I know that there are some kind of parents which have bad personality. I can say that bad personality is always affecting children. According to me, the parents are the most responsible for this. Because, when a man and a woman agree to be married each other, they will carry the same, burden, responsibility, and emotion, including love. So, if something bad such as fighting, yelling, and no attention to children, there have to problems at the parents. I admit that every parent also a human, which carry probability to be wrong. But with the maturity, the parents should face their disadvantage with more ethics.

I've never hated my parents. Well I had problems with them, they were not right in many cases. But they always try to help me and understand me. They also gave me everything they can! And have always wishing all the best for me. My parents are the people that I can trust. They have never lied me and will never do it. I'm just can't hate my parents.

I love my parents i think my parent is equel to GOD.I thing all parents of full of love.In my case my parents help me my all part of life.My parent help me my studies,jobs etc. Parents are the one of the precious on of our life.If any problem with me my parents help me to overcome that problem.

Well, I never hate my parents before. Although I always have arguments with my mom, I never hate her as I understand there are differences among all the people since I was young. Moreover, we are different generation, and how we were brought up are so different, so I really respect the differences between my parents and myself. But also, I always share my opinions with them, and hence sometimes we have arguments. I am actually very lucky as I have good parents, they really love us very much and also treat us good since we were young. Even my friends always think my parents are good to us. So, I can't find any reason to hate them at all.

Hi..I never hate my parents because my parents are so good parent.Yes, sometimes something make me doesn't agree with them but it just about misscommunication or the way to teach us are not right way.I know there are not all parents are good but the point is as parents, we have no get education of parenting yet at school before we being parent.So we teach our kids base on our experienced.

i never hate my parents as i know that what they do is just for my good sake only. though sometimes we did not appreciated it coz we only listen to what we want. i know sometimes they become so over protected but they only do that coz they dont want any harm for us. someday if we become a mother too then we will realize it.

I don't think anyone should hate their parents just because the parents punish them when they do something wrong... in India, as almost everyone gets the love of both the parents throughout their childhood, they don't get to blame parents for anything... if one parent is strict, the other is caring... so we get a mix of both the things from 2 different people in the same household... when i was a child, i used to think that my dad scolds us a lot and punishes us when we did something wrong... and on the other hand, my mom used to love us a lot... so we loved our mother more than our dad... but that doesn't mean i hated him... now when i am quite established in life, i think this is because i got those punishments and never trued to do those things again otherwise my life would have beena hell by now...

first of all i ask you why to hate our parents they gave birth its a big gift from them, i dont hate my parents and do not expect any els from them just we have to take care of them and love them becase they taken care of us and loved a lot just we have to love them

oh now?? i ignored my parents every time i go out and go home. i'm always in my room texting or listening to the music. i ignored them since december last year and until now, i don't want to talk with them. because of their attitudes and a lot of pain in my heart. i don't know if i'm gonna talk with them for the sake of my grandma and our relatives that who are coming next month.

hi! well, in my experience. i never hated my parents though sometimes they are so rough discipling. though it hurts but i think why they are doing that. because also of what i did.. its my fault and they want us to straighten my life and be good

my mom and I were talking about this the other day. She has a friend that when her kids were teenagers they would tell her that they hated her. While me and my siblings had our fair share of arguements with our parents one thing we never did was tell them that we hated them. I don't know why excatly maybe because we knew that would be crossing the line or maybe we just knew we really didn't mean it deep down we were just upset.

I love my mom. She has always been there for me and supported me no matter what. We also had our ups and downs. I believe it's something normal. Trusts come after you reach your twenties. Alot of teenagers do mistakes and stupidities. I was once a teen so I know. I remember that when I was angry i just wanted to run away. But as time passes, the anger eventually goes away. Now that i am 23, i understand why mom was like that to me. Now that I am a little more mature, I can understand things i couldn't when i was a teen. In life, we must be patient, happy and positive. Furthermore, isn't it enough just to live? We live because of our parents and I think it's enough for us to bow them in gratittude.

Hi rosey You are right you have to honour your father and mother as they are next to God for all the children. They play a very important role in a child's life. According to me there are children who are frightened to their parents as they are strict towards them. In my case I am very lucky I am always loved by my parents and never faced the situation that I hated them. Have a nice day.

No matter what your parents do, never hate them, just know that you view a subject in different ways... period. Abomination to hate a parent