Does it make him gay?

mmm..maybe bi-curious at the most if it were a one time thing. sounds like he pulled a "might as well since i'm here".

I would not do that, but I don't think this makes him gay.

No I dont really think it makes him gay but I think it is odd that once finding out that the person he was going to hook up with was a male that he went ahead and did the deed. Most men even really drunk if they were comletely heterosexual would get mad enough to just leave instead of going along with the deception. Drunk or not I know that if I was in a situation that I didnt want to do I would not do it. He probably was curious as to how it would feel and just figured well once in a lifetime right. Who knows maybe he found something he didnt know he enjoyed before. Obviously it wasent to embarrassing for him or he probably wouldnt have told you about it.

hi brooxy, No this one incident in and of itself would not make him gay. The fact that he went along with it once he knew is questionable but like you mentioned, he was very drunk and that could explain it. One incident would not make someone gay.

Why do we get so obssessed with labels. Your friend enjoyed himself and presumably he did not hurt anyone so what does it matter what that is called. I don't understand how you can say that that is a serious note. It is not serious at all in fact it is of no importance.

im thinking.... gay. he found out it was a he/she but still did it, its very gay.

lol, i dont think that makes him gay. He didnt know that shemale was a tranny. but what an experience lol

YES! HE'S GAY! Actually, I don't know and don't care, but that sounds amusing to me. Actually what this story really illustrates to me is how much I am NOT missing by being a non-drinker.

It's not gonna make him gay if he's not. He can be curious in being a woman, as I see what the situation you described is. Maybe he's confused in his orientation. You should as him. What I know is that most of the gay people find their orientation during the teenage years.