do u think love really hurts??
@abhiabhiabhiabhi (531)
India
January 16, 2010 12:18pm CST
you know i had a girlfriend but i accepted her just because she was getting fustrated.........now that i love someone else i just cant tell her because i feel that she will get hurt and do something which she should not......i started feeling for her and leaving her is making me sad....still i cant even leave the girl whom i love....does my girlfriend really hurting me???does love really hurt??above all....do i started loving her???
7 responses
@lovie0524 (56)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
Love without sacrifice is futile....but love with sacrifice is genuine
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@jose431 (164)
• India
28 Jul 10
Yeah,it is true that love really hurts,I am in relation with my boyfriend for only 3months one day he came to my home to visit me.In my room I had got 3 friends including my younger sister,but they were not there in my room,they went to another place for some official works.However my best friend and me were there when he came to my room,I was very happy to see him,unfortunately in next day my own best friends and my bf were in relation.
@abhiabhiabhiabhi (531)
• India
18 Jan 10
hahahaha..........well thats the coolest solution to all problems i guess
@vjypathania (312)
• India
17 Jan 10
as per me for first girl you don't have any feeling which we call love it is just sympathy. I 'll you just tell her truth and join your true love other it will definitely hurts each of you.
@tehzeeb123 (2)
• India
16 Jan 10
well... you can't (I thought of using shouldn't) love someone because they are getting frustrated and yes now you might end up hurting her. Being a human, its very natural to feel sad, don't get confused that with love.
I certainly cant say if you were in love with the gal before but I can suggest you something. Please give it a thought this time at least. Think, with whom you can be happy, you can be yourself and never bothered that other person might judge for what you said. Besides, When you are in love, you'll know it.
As for the other person (gal you thought in love before or in love now) its best you tell them what you feel. If not now then in future they'll realize thats the best you did for them, which is in deed.
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Tehzeeb
@abhiabhiabhiabhi (531)
• India
18 Jan 10
i can understand what ou told me but the thingi s that i am worried.....if i tell her the trurh and she ends up doing anything silly.......(i hope you know what i mean by doing anything silly) then i will feel guilty the whole of my life
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
18 Feb 12
I think if you feel that you love another girl it is better for you to tell to your girlfriend that you don't love her anymore because i think you just feel sad leaving her because you are pity on her. It will be hurt more if she will know that you are just pity on her that's why you just keeping in touch to her even you love someone new. Telling her the truth can help to lessen the hurt that she will feel in the future.
