No Sorry, no Thank You in Real Friendship
By monojdhole
@monojdhole (200)
India
January 16, 2010 12:51pm CST
There is no scope of saying "Sorry!" or "Thank You!" in real friendship for any reason whatsoever. I have none in my relation with my best friend. We never use these words to each other. Do you?
If at all these words are needed to be used, then I doubt the friendship to be real or true. Have guts to clarify this for your best friend!
5 responses
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
17 Jan 10
Its all depend person to person. I use these words with some off my friends and not with some other friends. These words are very good to express your feelings.
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
16 Jan 10
I say sorry and thank you to my friends because if I do something that they might not like I want to apologize for it because they are my friends and I don't want to do anything to hurt them. I also say thank you when I am grateful for things that they have done for me or for things that they got for a present or whatever. Sometimes I like to thank my friends just for their companionship because you never know when they'll be gone so enjoy the time you have with them now.
I think it's good to let each other know how much you care for each other even if it's just a friend relationship and not marriage or a partner.
@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
16 Jan 10
For me, i feel the need to get the message across. I dont want my buddy to think that i am abusing her. Words are valuable confirmations.
@indocorner (546)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 10
my friend n i have a deal not to use these words but we still say them sometimes b'coz "thank you" can symbolizes respectful n "sorry" means that we have no intention to hurt our friends when we make any mistakes n faults. We still need these words, i think.
