dating your ex-boyfriend's bestfriend

hi mayonaka1616, Well me? Yes! I will still go date my ex-girlfriend if ever I will be given a chance to date her! because she was still part of my life that cross down in my heart! may be in the date we will just ask if how are her? and may be we will also talk about our love life and ask to talk again regarding our past.

Hello. I don't think it's good to see if you're dating your bestfriend ex-boyfriend. It is morally wrong. My ex-boyfriend flirting with my close friend when we are still together and it was totally out of my knowledge that there are something fishy going on. I recently found out when my friend slip her tongue and i was surprise. I asked her about it and she just answere me "i thought you know". What a stup...id answer, right? Then i didn't bother asking her again. Anyway, having a relationship with that guy is a big mistake I've ever done. I committed my self to him even though im not attracted to him nor a feelings. I didn't think negative about her after that conversation. We still friends though. My friend had a boyfriend and I'm happy for her but i found out that her boyfriend was a former husband of her bestfriend. They didn't last long. She didn't mind the friendship as long as she have that guy. Now, she's currently in another relationship with her co-worker and the guy is married. I guess it's her nature to stole someones love ones. I totally disagree on that act. It's totally immoral.

No. I don't think this is the best idea! I certainly would never do it. It's dangerous territory if you ask me! I think it's important to set "rules" with your friends, and "no dating ex's" is my #1 rule with friends. Plus, you can never really tell if your friend still has feelings for his/her ex, so it's impossible to tell if what you're doing will hurt your friend. Unless you have really strong feelings for them (Ones of love), I would say no..Back off and find someone else. But that's just my opinion.

I don't think that would be a wise decision to date your ex-boyfriend's best friend. You wouldn't want to break up their friendship which would probably happen due to jealousy issues your ex might develop. There are plenty of guys in the world to date so I would suggest leaving the best friend alone.