some are just ridiculous!

Yeah. Did you notice that at times we misunderstand a person, and then later, change our minds about the person because of some other thing that we come to know later. In the first instance, we may react in one way, and even resort to talking something against the person, only to retrace our steps later. It means, we cannot be constant about our opinions as we do not have all facts at all times. Learnt it by experience that we need to take time judging people based on all facts, rather than taking what others state for granted.

hello iloemi i had a nice response on this a while ago after i posted it it's gone after they requested to sign me up..i can't recall anymore those selected words i typed..it was so frustrating. I think that was the nicest response i ever did..but it was gone.. shockkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Hi ckyera, there are any number of such double faced people and it is best to keep them at a distance and have very little to do with them. I have some close relatives who are classic examples of such types and I am always wary of them. I try not to have many dealings with them - all the best and have a nice evening

Hey my friend! There a number of these kind of people in our society. These people are really opportunists. Their real intention is to utilize the fullest opportunity from you. Whenever they've targeted you he/she tries to understand your temperament (i.e. what type of person you are) and then tries to impress you with his/her flattering remarks that matches your personality. When you're convinced that you've been impressed with his/her flattering, he then proceeds to make the effort to get the fullest favour from you. So, the whole thing is an act, fake.

Hi cky,This topic reminds me with my shoolmate before.The guy who courted me was his crush,so she tried to put me down by talking bad against me.But nothing happened because the guy did not gave attention to her.He he he.Happy mylotting!

stop it guys, now we all are being ridiculous. you know sometimes i do post ridiculous answers, there are funny people and there are serious ones. Give the Ridiculous Guy a Break.

Hello, ckyera.. haha =D sorry for being late!! Seems like u have exploded huh!! and u are starting this post, just because u cant stand 'her' ways of having double standards?? lol =D Saying things which does not suit what she's doing at all?? hehe ^_^ Well, there will alwaus be ple around acting or behaving in this way.. We will just listen and let it go, but dun ever believe in them.. lol =D Since we have prove on our side, thus it's our choice.. hehe

I know what you mean and unfortunately, I've encountered several people like that in my life. I choose to ignore. It seems to work big time..

Hi, ckyera. Yes, they are! I agree with you! I know many people that are like this! And I don't like it when a person says that they are not jealous of others when in fact that they really are. When people say things that is not true about them, that I find to be very true. I see them as being mortal hypocrites.

Sometimes I met people like that but I ignore on what they say to prevent me from any heated arguments. I think we leave them in that particular manner they have. I don't like to be interrupted with those person...Have a nice day!!!

I find myself deleting stupidness. I'm on a roll tonight and not very sympathetic with the vast majority of mylotters discussion subjects. irritating and stupid, ignorant and chidlish. I just delete the ones i dont want to talk about or even think about and discuss the ones I find interesting enough to spend my time on. like it or lump it, mylot is full of all kinds and really isn't that what mylot is all about/??

I have some like that in my everyday life not so much mylotters though.... I have found that most of the mylotters are pretty knowledgeable people or atleast most of the ones I have come in contact with..... After one contact you really know which ones you can talk to and give you a honest opinion and which ones really don't give a care.... Look we are all on here to make a little money but let's make it fun and a learning experience in the process....

Hiya ckyera, I used to live by a woman who lived downstairs and quite honestly if she had lived miles away you could still have heard her. I was the cornerstone of her gossip day as my Sisterinlaw and her were great friend still are so any tidbits about me go straight back to her it´s really nice in a way that I am so famous round here but for all the wrong reasons (grin). Well about this neighbour I would like to state that I never considered her to be my neighbour at all I would rather have lived next to my worst enemy. She shrieked everything to her kids worse than a Parrot or a Chimpanzee I am not kidding she has a voice when she shrieks everything out that makes you cringe and all of your nerves to go with it. Of course before she had another friend who lived in front of me who also gossiped about me too so with all those gossipers out there I really don´t pay much attention anymore unless they talk about my Mother and then they can look out watch out guys here I come. But as for them talking about me all the time I wish I could make cash out of all that just think all that wasted fame and being in the Headlines of where you live and all because you mind your own business. I wish none of this was true but it is but just the same I don´t wish them any ill I just wish that for once they would mind their own business instead of mine maybe I should charge them for copyright?

Hi CK, well, people who used to hate people who gossiper, robber, etc...are the persons they are. sad to say but that is true. they want to be recognized. but sad tosay it's not the right way to do it. cheers mama...don't stress yourself with these kinds of personality. stay happy and blessed okay?!

Hey ckyera! I think that is just part of the nature in all of us! We do things that some think are ridiculous to others, but we don't always realize that it is ridiculous to ourselves! Maybe you are doing something that others are thinking is ridiculous! And as for gossiping, isn't that what you are doing right now in this discussion? You are talking about your so called friend! It's ok! We all do it whether we mean to or not! It's sometimes unfortunate, but it is just part of being human!

you're right but many are poker face so eventually some are very good in deceiving and sometimes most of the time the one who feel irritate most of the times are the one who also have the same characteristic, So their are cases of domino effect where the person who do most of the complain are the one who have defect as she/he despise other but she/he does not notice herself/his self are the most imperfect one. So it is better not to judge in order not to be judged.

I understand your discussion, but at the same time aren't you doing the exact same thing that they are doing? You just aren't doing it outloud. Youa are telling a bunch of peoeple that you dont know. Sorry, not to offend. I just saw a similarity of what you were saying that you hated in what you were doing.

yes, i don't like those people too.they are not honest.there are lot of such kind of person around us.they alway doing things which they said they don't like.in fact they like it very much.i look down upon them.

The one that I encounter the most often in my life is the people that say they don't like drama when they are in fact the ones that are always starting all of the drama. My sister-in-law is the best example of this. Every single day she has got some different dramatic story that she's got to share. The funniest thing is that I don't think the majority of the stories that she shares have any truth to them at all.

Yes There are people just ridiculous people. To deal with them is to avoid them.Or, tell them face to face that you do not like this way of talking ,then they may keep away from you.