No money no honey!

hello zearah! well, when i am still on my hometown, i know some who are like that! hehe and i guess it happens most of the time to couples... coz maybe the wife just become problematic thinking what to serve her family...of course if they don't have money, how can she buy things for them...hehe and so she wants to push her husband to do something...which usually ends up in nagging and fights! just like what i have read... 'when poverty comes in at doors, love leaps out at the windows...' i don't know how true it was but i know it does happen...

That's not a healthy family. They promise to God to be together for better and for worst. Marriage is sacred.

Not just in village every where it is the same old story no money no honey, now a days i think only the successful people have the right to love and settle down peacefully in life.

I think that applies to couples everywhere in the world when it comes to gambling, be it a lottery or card playing or betting on sporting events. Everyone loves a winner

I think we should understand that money is not everything but money can buy everything. Nowadays people always thinking that a woman who loves money so much is a materialistic woman, but the fact is no matter who are you, where do you live, or what is your age, the fact is everybody needs money for continuing their life. But of course over obsession of money is a bad thing and it could harm us back again. Have a nice day and happy mylotting.

It happens. That's why we dont blame the husbands if they would hit their wives, not that i agree with it , but women need to behave sometimes you know. Marriage is a relationship u keep through good or bad times, most especially during bad times.

Lots of my neighbors are like that. They don't care if they can create a loud noise, for them the important is to explode the arguments. That kind of scenario can be found on poor class and some middle age family. When they lose money that is the initial reaction. They release their anger to one family member, sometimes to their husband. When the wife attack their husband, I guess it is still wrong. Any misunderstanding can resolve by talking each other seriously, husband should not allow their wife to do it to him.

Hi there Zearah! I can't remember anything in particular similar to that but I would like to look beyond the third person's point of view. May be I would think that maybe the wife is doing that because the husband is not earning enough to suffice to the family's needs. Mainly, it is the man's responsibility to feed his family especially if he's the one more capable of doing so. But if he only earns money through the local lottery, then maybe the wife has a right to nag her husband about it in hope of getting him to find a job or something and be a real family man. And maybe, the wife is happy when the husband wins because they have something to spend on their needs. On the other hand, if the husband is doing his best to earn, I think it's wrong to sling hurtful words towards him.

Ya, Unfortunately I know plenty of people like that. They are all happy and loving when times are good but when things get tough then they lash out at each other and blame each other rather than pull together and try to work things out which would probably make them closer. They will tell you it is brcause they are stressed over the lack of money but wouldn't you think that fighting amongst themselves not only does nothing at all to help the situation but it just adds to their stress level. Now they have no money and their relationship is going down.

Hi friend, Its a common thing in Indian rural areas. A good wife should be with her husband in all situations but in some areas its difficult to see such good people. Good Day.

I've never encountered a scenario like that before. However, I do see where the wife could possibly be coming from. If the husband is losing money that he should not be spending in the first place, than it makes perfect sense. Of course if he wins, she probably isn't going to say anything out loud in public, but I'm sure that she is still upset that he's basically gambling away their money, which could have gone to better use such as paying utility bills, mortgage, and groceries. At least that's the way I see it. If it's money that is spare and they are both agreeing it can be used, than I don't see why she'd be mad.

I have grown to greatly dislike women who treat their husbands poorly. Life is so difficult as is, and then to come home to a rude, insulting, nagging women who does nothing but tare you down... I'd rather stay single. There was a guy I knew who has just such a women, and she made me sick, and he was always so miserable. I can not imagine what fake way she mislead him to marry her. There is no way any benefit of being married could cover the life long torture of being with such a women.

I think most people are like that. When you have money, you are nice. When you don't, you look for someone to blame.

Oh, yes! Not having enough money can really hurt you and your family. From my own experience I know that when there are no money problems everything's going well somehow. You say " Well, this is not good, but it can be worse!" This "worse" thing is not having money. I'm in such period tight now and I have lots of bad conversations with my mom and dad. I don't like it at all!

To run the family purely on gambling and lottery is highly risky stuff. But what your discussion topic suggest is absolutely correct. There is no Money there is no Honey (Sweetness) in life.