Its much easier to hate than to love..
By akhilgupta26
@akhilgupta26 (103)
India
January 18, 2010 4:16am CST
Do you think its true..
i think so..
Plz discuss this topic..
I want to have your views on this
6 responses
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
18 Jan 10
I think its alot easier to love then to hate. Hating takes alot out of a person. It stresses you out alot more and takes so much of your mental and physical being. Where as love is so much more fun and so good for the heart and soul where hating works the complete opposite for you. Also hating creates such bad karma for the individual that is doing the hating.
@karthi_88 (299)
• India
18 Jan 10
ya friend, i too feel the same its easier to love than to hate.hating a person is not easier.we can love people without any reason or for small reasons we love others.but to say from heart without any reason we cant hate a person.hating a person whom we love a lot is very very difficult.
have a nice day
@owstalaga (4707)
• Philippines
20 Jan 10
Yes of course it is a lot more easy to hate especially when you are a negative person who always focuses on the bad things happening. Even if you are a positive person but if someone does you wrong, it's easy to think about hating that person.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
18 Jan 10
both love and hate are very primal emotions and the two most intense emotions out there....As someone mentioned, its very easy to have the love of someone turn to hate BUT its far more trying and difficult to have the hate towards someone turn to love.....
Many ppl seem to obviously think that lovign someone is easy...but they need to really think about that...Loving a person is very complex and detailed...Hating someone however (or soemthing for that matter) comes to ppl frighteningly easily...Loving someone takes trust, openmindedness, understanding and so on...Hate takes nothing at all really....
all that said, obviously to me personally, its FAR EASIER to hate a person than it is to love a person..
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
18 Jan 10
That is the most craziest thing in me. For me it is easier to love than to hate that is why I always cry at the end. I never hate often. If I love the persons friends or love life or anybody that i feel i like boy or girl i love them. And it is hard for me to hate them. Thanks!
@i_am_moosie (62)
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18 Jan 10
Noooooooooo! Hate is hard work, it eats you up, and for the most part you get nothing in return... It makes you feel bad, but unless you are acting on it, the object of your hate is usually unaware.
Love can be hard work too, but mostly it has rewards - even unrequited love can make you happy, and it makes it obvious that you are loving, which creates a virtuous circle that often ends up with you being lovesd back.