Is love worth a tear?
By bulastika
@bulastika (5966)
Philippines
January 18, 2010 8:58am CST
Love aches. Nothing but a heart aches.
Yeah love hurts, love wounds.
All the songs in the world can kill you if your hurt because of so cold (called) love.
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Now that Its all over now I'm asking myself is it worth a tear?
Every single drop of it?
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Funny..
Life is full of pain and sorrow and the moment you are happy next thing you know it theirs already tears in your eyes.
7 responses
@jhaded10 (42)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
when you love expect for a pain that will cause tears but don't regret it for it will become the bitter-sweet pain that every human can feel. if you don't shed tears then you really don't feel the love that you have for a certain person. you cry because you love. don't be afraid to lose a tear for that person, for that someone you have loved because in spite of the tears you know in your heart that he made you smile.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
I can cry for the person I love.
But do you still love a person who broke your heart?
Loves end when it ends. You must need to accept that.
Its not worth a tear drop.
Its not love anymore.
Because the person you love is not the same person your crying.
@jhaded10 (42)
• Philippines
20 Jan 10
It is just as simple as... you will not cry for someone you don't really care or you don't really love because it will not matter to you. No matter how the person hurt you if you don't care then why will you shed tears. But to the one you love, no matter what we do, at one point in our life, he will make us cry, the only question is the matter of time...
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
20 Jan 10
So its means that because your crying even your already break up means you still in love. You still in love to the person who left you? You still in love to the person who left you?
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Memories and songs can kill you really if your in that situation.
@Lucky09 (1763)
• Philippines
18 Jan 10
"is it worth a tear"
not a tear, but tears!
and yes it's worthy. everything has it's own counterpart. happiness to sadness...those who are always holding their tears back are the most coward people i think because they are afraid to realize that they are hurt and they are human to cry...
so if one is hurt, it's not bad to shed tears...it's the best way to release the pain
@Lucky09 (1763)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
well, it that every tear dropped could relieve and ease the pain afterwards then it's worth it.
crying is the absence of love?
are u sure here?
isn't it possible to cry because of happiness, relief?
"Its not worth ruining your day because of some silly love"
==you yourself stated that love can move a mountain, and yet you say it's silly one?
your statements are contradicting and it's not worth to do just to continue a discussion. i think you better think first all what you've said before you make another one...
some hypocrite people say they don't cry and they don't think shedding tears would help but inside their hearts are totally devastated. they keep on holding back those tears because they are afraid to show that they are human to feel pain but inside they are totally torn apart...
you better look at the mirror and ask again yourself my friend.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
20 Jan 10
their is also tears of joy.
If your to much happy you cry your heart out.
But that the different story.
My topic is not about love as you see.
My topic is about crying when loves end.
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Example your husband lives you because he has another woman.
You cry because you loss your husband.
You cry and feel miserable because he left you.
But how about him? His happy with another woman.
Get my point?
You cry because you love him?
You cry because you loss him?
But do he care?
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The moment he lefts you theirs no love attach between you two.
And crying for your lost is not worth it.
May point is he must be the one crying for living you.
He must be the one who suffer for the things he lost (you).
And you must not cry for him.
You must thank your self for theirs lesser garbage in your house.
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And yes love can move mountain and it can only happen if theirs two people loving.
Not one.
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And my comment don't contradict to each other its complements.
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Loves only work if theirs other who loves you.
But if your the only one who do the loving then its not love.
What your doing is either martyrdom or just simply fooling yourself.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
You're right theirs no word that can express my thoughts for that.
I want to ask if its worth a single tears. Only one tears. So to make the story short I just removed the "s"..
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Because if we say tears and the way I understand it, Its crying.
But I want to be specific. I want to ask if its worth one drop. Even one tiny drop that fall in your eyes. Is it worth it?
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Then your crying not because of love.
Because love is emotion so strong it can move a mountain.
Love is happiness
Love is joy.
Love makes us complete.
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But crying?
That means one thing absent of love.
Absent of joy
absent of happiness.
And feeling of loneliness.
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People who are holding their tears back are the most coward?.
Before I think that way too.
But later in life you realize its not worth it.
Its not worth ruining your day because of some silly love.
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Life must goes on and it must start in a minutes not days after mourning.
I think some people don't cry because they don't feel crying.
Heart of stone so to speak.
You will get tired of all that and later in life.
You will just get tired of everything negative.
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@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
I have already decided that I won't fall in love again.it is not really worth a tear.it is not worth the sleepless nights.it is not really worth my independence.I would rather be alone and happy than coupled up and miserable.
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
20 Jan 10
I would rather live a simple life alone than a complicated one with a lover.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
Ows? Even if you found your mr. right? lolz
It is not really worth a tear. Then why is your handkerchief wet? lols
Rather be alone and happy.
Are you happy when your alone?
Lets see if you reach 40..lolz..
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Sometime if we are hurt we close our doors so that we will not be hurt again.
I think its a selfish act. You are denying your self to be love again..
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If thinks comes I accept if it goes I let go.
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I have a normal life before happiness comes so I have normal life to when happiness goes..
@shivamkapila (764)
• India
18 Jan 10
yeah love is spread through the person to whm you love the most if he is not well or some single point hurts him the tears will fell from your eyes..this show how much you are love with that person
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
Yeah..
But what the use of crying when he or she left you?
Is their a point to insisting on something that wont work in the first place?
I mean you need two to tango. The main reason you break up because someone is letting go.
And if you cry its like your still holding on.
@alohagems100 (565)
• United States
19 Jan 10
The main point is: "We can' always get what we want.... But if we try sometime we get what we need."- a qoute from a song.
I think majority of the girls cries in terms of losing someone. There are many girls that are devoted to the only one, I am not sure for today's generation but long time ago. lol. Boys too. But it is not always the pattern. Some people break the rules. And both have "Extras", it depends on how pretty, wealthy and popular they are. Some have none, or never been kissed and never been touched but totally damaged. Everything is relative. Just enjoy life whatever you have and find some ways to make you happy and contented. But then, "we can't get no satisfaction". We always longed for more.
What I learned from my diaries is that, on my younger years, life was so unfair in terms for having a partner to love. It might just be a trial and error for everything and see what's work for you. But as you aged and look back all those years, then sometimes you can say,"it's been that we are not meant", my life would also be different. Everything is relative. As long as you are alive and kicking, there are always hope. But do not get too excited and too serious. You know why.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
20 Jan 10
You are right and the more we want to get what we want the harder it is to get what we want and worse is that what we want is sometimes not we need. But we don't try to full fill what we need but rather what we want..lolz
I'm just playing some words..lolz
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
That's true. But tears flowing? Its more like I need an anger management. lolz
Just frustration. Actually its all frustration.
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Can I disagree? Then what are the tears for?
You cry because you loss something?
Will the tears bring the back the past? Or return back to normal?
I don't think so.
Tears only show that you loss.
And I hate being a loser..
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Love is suppose to be full of joy and happiness.
Not some stress attack.
@mdehonor (31)
• Philippines
20 Jan 10
When youre inlove, ure so happy..u cant see anything but colorful things. But the moment the reality comes, sadness and tears are always there to destroy the happiness. Why cant we always be happy when were inlove.. Cant we erase the tears and sorrow to the dictionary? Just thinking..
