loving someone? yes or no, why?

Philippines
January 18, 2010 11:50am CST
what would be harder for you, to tell someone you love them or that you don not love them back?
5 responses
@brymel25 (285)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
Telling someone that you don't love him back would definitely be much harder. It would be very painful but that person just have to accept the way you feel and move on.
@Allie_xoxo (1063)
• Canada
22 Jan 10
A person who has their heart broken tends to have strong emotions toward the other person whom they consider the heart breaker. Often times the heart broken will blame the heart breaker for their feelings, forgetting that the heart breaker is having many unpleasant feelings of his or her own.
19 Jan 10
I think telling them that I don't love them back would be pretty difficult. Saying you love someone feels hard the first time you say it, for fear that the other person may not feel the same. Once it is said and out there it is much easier - as long as the other person feels the same way that is!
• India
18 Jan 10
I think the second would be harder for me. If I fall in love in with someone, I will definitely tell this to her. But if I meet someone whom I loved in the past, I will not be able stop myself from falling with her again.
• United States
18 Jan 10
The hardest is telling the second one. This is because I know that by saying that I would be crashing someone's hope, desire and soft feelings. It is quite devastating for a person to hear that. Some even stay in denial that it happened. At the same time, my own state of mind will also be affected. I don't like the idea of breaking someone's heart. It is upsetting for me.