court marriage vs ritualistic traditional marriage

India
January 18, 2010 12:54pm CST
what would you prefer? marrying in the court or marrying in the traditional way with all of its ritualistic fervor.please share your views.
3 responses
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
For me its not the way how a marriage is celebrated. What counts much for me is that, I love the person I am marrying with, The celebration is mutually agreed, valid and in the presence of all the people close to me and my partner.
• India
19 Jan 10
very well said "valid".i have my reservations on the extravagant way of conducting the affair.
@allknowing (136098)
• India
19 Jan 10
Marriage is a commitment and a commitment requires a celebration. You are not just the two of you but your own little world is there for you. Call them and celeberate with them and traditions have a beauty of their own. I have gone through this and no regrets.
• India
19 Jan 10
thanks for sharing your experience .
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
18 Jan 10
Well since all marriage is ordained by God, and since I recognize him as having sole authority, what I prefer doesn't really matter. I am supposed to have my wedding in church, before God and Heaven, therefore that is what I will do. Court marriage is vastly cheaper I hear, but since God is more important to me, than the money He created, I'll have to ignore that.
• India
18 Jan 10
congrats! have a happy life ahead..