Love or friend??

India
January 18, 2010 3:00pm CST
God forbid,but if you ever have to choose between your best friend and your love who will you go for? I know it is really very difficult to decide and honestly never want to be in such a situation where I have to choose between the two.Even if I have to I really do not think I will be able to make that decision. I just wanted to know how others will act in such a situation.
7 responses
• India
19 Jan 10
iam always on the side of friendship which lasts forever than love.
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@shalome (178)
• India
19 Jan 10
Shreed, Platonic love is very much part of any cose friendship. But such a love doesn't always stay platonic. Some times it turns into passionate love. Crossing that line, between frindship and love, can be both beautiful and extremely difficult.
@coldmoon (1088)
• France
18 Jan 10
I hope that I'll never have too make such a decision. If they're really my best friend and my love, each one must undestand how important the other is for me, and they never force me to choose. It depends on the concrete situation, and surely the answer is not always the same. But once I must have a reason to choose only one of them, I expect that the other also sympathizes and respects my decision.
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@spalladino (17891)
• United States
19 Jan 10
Maybe a long time ago I would have chosen my best friend but I am deeply in love with the man I'm married to and he's who I depend on the most. He's the person I am the closest to now that we're all older and I'm sure my best friend feels the same way about her husband. Friendships have their place but your partner in life should take priority over any friend.
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@nautilus33 (1827)
19 Jan 10
hi! Well, as I have told many times, never let a girl to stand between two friends, but if she is already there and you must choose, then the choice is really very hard! I think I will choose the girl, but only if I am 100% sure that I love her and she loves me, and that our love will last forever. Well, someone of you can tell, how can you now if it will last forever? Well, don't think of it, if I meet the right girl I will know it!
• India
18 Jan 10
I would choose my best friend coz.Life without girl friend is you can stare at any girl,You don't have to spend money on her,No gf no emotional blackmailing, if you don't have a gf she can't dump you,This can be more to life than just waiting for bloody phone to ring,No gf means total freedom,No more endless waiting at some weird shopping place,More time,You don't have to see boring lover stories instead of sports,No non-stop nonsense etc etc. These are some reasons i would choose a friend instead of girl friend!!
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@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
18 Jan 10
I would choose my boyfriend...because his just not a boyfriend to me but his my bestfriend as well. haha..and my friends have their own lives, I know their gonna be there for me, but its different with my boyfriend..his always there. So yeah. I choose love.
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