His wife turned out to be a leisbian!

It is very hard to when I got married I found he was gay I had a daughter and he never said a word till 5yrs later that's hard to take and his so called lover came to me in store and said I am his lover well what a shock I had my daughter with me I had to get a way from him as fast because she started asking who he was. It took me along time to get over that shock. My daughter is now 32yrs old with 2 kids of her own which is nice. cd

I've had a couple of friends who's boyfriends left them for other men - but it hasn't happened to me... On the other hand, I always figure that if I like a guy, then he's probably gay - cause I have a knack for that - so maybe that's why I'm still single after all these years!

It does happen. A lot of gay people have married in hopes of covering up the fact that they are gay because of the stigma surrounding it. It used to happen a lot more often. Years ago I worked with a girl who went home during her lunch break and found her husband in bed with another man. She was devastated! As a teen, I also babysat for this woman who had two sets of twins. She seemed to have the greatest marriage and the coolest little family. Imagine my surprise when she kicked her husband out and had another woman com to live with her. I think this sort of thing happens less and less as society becomes more accepting of gay people.

Alot of gay and lesbian people have married in hopes that it would cover up who they are and some to even change who they are. They are hiding behind a marriage so they don't have to come out and tell everyone they like the same gender. I know a few people who it has happened to and honestly you have to think how the other person feels. They are coming out of the closet and letting the world know who they are. Years ago this is what people have done and now since the world is coming to terms with homesexuality people are being true their emoitions and who they want to be. However some people still marry out of spite and think they are going to change when in realtiy you can't change who you love and want to be with. I do feel for your friend but think of what she has had to go through too.

Wow, I've only saw stuff like that on tv. I think that I would be completely upset myself if my husband turned out to be gay and wanted a divorce. So I can see why that guy is reacting in the way that he was. I'm sure that he felt deceived by the woman that he married, expecting that she was straight and was only planning to be with him and then drops on him that she is lesbian and is planning to leave him to be with this other woman. That is so sad. I don't how much more I would be able to handle that, except for being angry of the situation.

I have never thought that such situation would happen real life. I did hear a lot of people said about their one-night stand become nightmare when they realized the woman is a man actually. But to be married to a lesbian, it's something I only saw in movies, not real life. I hope that guy would be able to get over with this "incident" soon.

It's really crazy situation. I think before getting married we need to understand our partner fully then we can make any decision. marriages cant be happened all of sudden.

You can't really get mad at someone for pursuing what they love or want, it would just be nice if they didn't hurt peoples feelings in the process. I see how women would have easier time with homosexuality because they were god's creation of beauty. It's pretty hard to resist that.