Hereafter I am Planning on Organizing my discussions better at mylot....

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@kiran8 (15348)
Mangalore, India
January 19, 2010 12:32pm CST
I have been thinking about the way I have been handling discussions here on mylot so far.Most of the time I have been haphazod , wasting my time looking through pages for a discussion that interests me and many a times over looking discussions started by my friends and other members who have taken part in my discussions just because I have been so busy turning pages all the time ... But friends, Now I have decided to organise my discussion routine and make some changes hopefully for the better....I have decided to methodically respond to each and every response that I receive for my discussions and also immediately take part in one of the discussions that the member has started. That really solves my problem.... I am sure you all have your own ways of doing this ,please do come out with some suggestions and share your own methoid of handling discussions here on mylot....
5 responses
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
20 Jan 10
hi kiran, regarding discussions,actually to inform that i am alive,i have attended the mylot from the net cafe with one discussion atleast,by that my mylot friends know that the where about about me,the subject of the discussion i need not turn pages,which ever come to my mind i will put it as a discussion,but it is according to their will and wish,hve a nice day
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
20 Jan 10
Hi yugasini, why say you are alive, of course YOU ARE ALIOVE AND KICKING LOL...You always come out with something refreshing and it is a pleasure having your point of view . By the way what happened ? is there a problem with your comp that you are accessing from net cafe ? Hope to see you more active and take part in more discussions - have a nice day yugasini
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
20 Jan 10
hi kiran, thanks for the response,now the system was repaired,regularly my system was getting off,i think due to virus,i have to install antivirus or Ghost soft ware,yesterday i have sent a message to you,but it was not there in my list,have you received it or not,you are interested to visit 5 star hotel and experience the lunch or dinner there,i wish to offer 3 nights stay facility to you and your spouse at an resort,but i donot know why it was not reached you,if you have still interest send a message to you,have a nice day (do not think other wise what ever come in my brain i will speak out)
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
20 Jan 10
Yugasini it is a pleasure interacting with you always - i never got any mail from you so far Let me give my email id so that you can mail me there ( kiran8bhandary@gmail.com) It is good to know that your comp is o;k now..Have a nice day and happy mylotting
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
23 Jan 10
Hi Kiran...ha..ha..Your new endeavour appears the right thing to do,but believe me it appears alright on paper only...Putting it into practice is not that easy...I too have felt the same way many times and often vowed to mylot in a more systemmatic and planned manner,responding to all the responses I get to my discussions and also to all the discussions my dear friends have started. But that means you have to mylot devotedly,spending a lot of time here.The moment you stay away from mylot for a couple of days,you realise that you are over burdened with back logs and you end up frustrated,not knowing where to begin and where to end....sigh...
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
25 Jan 10
ha..ha... Kiran....see its not as easy as we think..And the best way is to mylot and enjoy what you are doing by taking part in discussions to your liking,and keep away from discussions that do not appeal to you or in which you have nothing to respond to.....Happy mylotting dear........
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
29 Jan 10
Yes Roseo, the best policy is to log on when you have the time and look at your home page and see what discussions are going on, started by your friends and those that are from the topics that interest you....It becomes easier to tackle the discussions when there is method.....i also look at the main discussion pages and definitely the no response pages, make it a point to answer at least one or two from those pages...All the best Roseo and have a great evening
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
25 Jan 10
Hi Roseo, what you say is absolutely right...it has happened to me so many times and I have always found it difficult to cope with the back log.But at least now I know what to do, just respond to all those responses my discussion has got and take part in their discussions. It has again happened to me because I have been away for 3 -4 days now and I have a lot of catching up to do today, am going to do my best - Have a nice day Roseo
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19 Jan 10
I share with you that methodology, checking out those discussions of those who respond to mine in an interesting manner because I take this as a sign that they may have originated some equally interesting discussions. I often find by doing this plenty of discussions which I feel may lead to an ongoing discussion. Of course this doesn't mean I ignore other avenues and regularly visit my friends to see what discussions they have started but also to see what they have responded to as this also a great way of finding some very good discussions rather than just aimlessly surfing through pages of interests. Because I limit my time on here each day it is critical that I don't just end up aimlessly surfing.
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
20 Jan 10
Usually I read online newspapers and find out discussions from there. Sometimes I remember my old days and recollect interesting past events and pick those stories as my subjects of discussions. Dear kiran, you have long past. You can pick many subjects from your treasure of memory.
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
21 Jan 10
Dear kiran,I can't believe you are 89. You are my inspiration.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
22 Jan 10
LOL.....Thanks a lot for that lovely compliment...
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
21 Jan 10
Hi bhanu, Yes we need to really look out for intreresting topics that holds members attention.I too try to look around and try to remember incidents and experiences that may be of interest to others. I am not long past, are you writing me of as ancient LOL....89 is still young ....All the best and have a nice day
@May2k8 (18364)
• Indonesia
22 Jan 10
indeed sometimes we like just a waste of time by just reading the whole page, I took some discussion that I can discuss. Some time after I read and I see something good conclusions or recommendations from other members seemed to good to be listened. I do not routinely always be here, but I try to keep it active and give my experience since I was here until now.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
22 Jan 10
Hi May, thanks a lopt for response I too answwer the discussions that I find interesting . There are some which are interesting, but I may not have anything to add because I have no knowledge about the subject being discussed....All the best and happy mylotting