how do you feel when your kids ask their parents not to fight?

i am so sorry that i havent the experience like this.however, i think it is not good to fight in front of the children.because i know. when i was a child ,i often saw my parents fight,and i felt so sad.someday i thought why they always fight .maybe they dont love me any more.

hi thats all good and gravy to teach a kid to be loving and not to raise their hand at other people, but at the same time kids need to be taught on how to defend themselves. I personally think not teaching your kid fighting lessons makes them more prone to be weak in a way that they do not know how to defend themselves when needed. Now at the same time teaching your child to fight you also have to teach that kid responsibility, not to go hitting on people just because you know how to fight, being a bully would not be acceptable. But if someone is trying to physically hurt you than yes you defend yourself. That's how I was raised and I have no problem in teaching my child how to fight and defend themselves if needed. As far as telling your child to be good, I am sure that you teach your child right from wrong so if relatives show your child a fight move, Yes you can teach your child that fight move is something that not be used in a playful manner, and the child can injure himself or others while trying a fight technique improperly. But So you may not feel comfortable with your child fighting or hitting unnecessarily but the child should be taught on how to correctly and efficiently to defend themselves if the time is ever would come.

I have absolutely no respect for parents who fight infront of their children, or other adults who fight infront of children. It scares the children, and it's not a good thing for them to see. my parents fought infront of me and it had long term effects. Adults need to quit fighting infront of children, and I am OK with kids speaking up, telling them not to fight.

You see, even a small child of four knows that it is bad to have a fight. She knows what is good and what is bad. Good for her, friend. I am very happy for your daughter's awareness of telling good from the bad.