Which of these will you give up?Love or Friendship
By hlgracey
@hlgracey (68)
Philippines
January 20, 2010 3:24am CST
I know some people tend to give up the love for the sake of friendship..Like my friend, she loves the guy so much but she can't do anything to show it to him because her friend loves the guy too..So she gave up her feelings for the sake of her friend.Thou it hurts her because the guy told her that she felt the same way too..
4 responses
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
20 Jan 10
For me both love and friendship are both important and both have a significant role in my life. This is true as said by you, it hard for a person in friendship if his friend loves the same person as she loves. For me also it might be same as such i would react in the same sense as you would so same would be my feelings towards my friend as with yours.
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
22 Jan 10
I think i would give up love for my friend as friendship worths more than love.A person can live without a love but cannot live without a friend.
@MagicalBubbles (5103)
• Canada
21 Jan 10
Hello Hlgracey,
Oh my, this is SO sad. Not only is she unhappy now but the guy is too. So for the sake of her friend, she's preventing not only herself from being happy but that guy also.
No I wouldnt prevent myself from loving someone for the sake of friendship. Id try to explain it instead and if my friend doesnt understand, well she/he wasnt a friend to begin with.
@hlgracey (68)
• Philippines
22 Jan 10
yup,we really need to fight for our feelings,,that will make her happy, whats the use of being a friend if she cannot understand the feelings of her friend..Learn to let go and move on there's a lot of guy who will respect and love her more than anything else..Just wait for the right time to come along..ayt?
@GsxrKing2009 (73)
• United States
21 Jan 10
I would gladly give up love over friendship. Reason being, depending on who your friends are of course, your friends will be your friends forever. And your friends won't play games with you, get into as many fights as a significant other, and you have the opportunity to save a boat-load of money and focus on yourself... Happiness is closer than you think...
