Lets talk about Love . . .

Actually yes. But i had a very bad experience with this guy, who couldn,t understand that i am married and i do not even liked him, what to say love him. My hubby nearly got a heart attack when i showed him the letters this guy wrote me. It is not easy telling ssomeone that you do not love them, but when yu cannot open your ears or use the brain our dear Lord gave you, then you should take what is coming to you. In a situation like this, you ALWAYS have to be honest. Do not try to spare the other persons feelings, because what happened to me, can happen to anyone and that was a very bad experience.

Well, I've rejected some people. Haha.... I remember deeply in my mind that I rejected a boy I loved very much in my senior high school time. When he asked me to be his girlfriend, I was so happy. But meanwhile I was so scared, I were afraid of losing him when we broke up one day. So I told him that to be good friends. He agreed. But he told me that three years later after I rejected him, he never treated me as his friend but pretended to be my friend. I was so sad. He said that he cannot be friends with someone who rejected him. I do love him even now but I don't think there is posibility between us. 5555````

I haven't had to reject a lover. I have said no to a guy trying to be my lover . I was clear and honest . I said it plainly no thank you and I walked away.When you don't know the person well , being a little harsh is easy . But if you were going out with the person or you were friends first and then they fall for yoiu, then you shoud be just as honest but do it gently. I hope I could sit him down and gently tell him I don't love him.i wuld do it face to face, not online or over the phone1

hi standby87 yes a stalker who would not take no for an answer, kept plying me with gifts and flowers and candy, and I kept rejecting as I did not love him, and barely knew the fellow. He was a patient I had taken care of. so finally I thought if I gave in and had lunch with him, I could finally persuade him to give up on me. but it was a disaster as he tried to give me a ring and when I refused he got violent and grabbed my arm. the waiters had to pull him off me, and someone called the police. I took out a restraining order against him, but his rich daddy sent him back east to an Aunt and I never thank goodness was ever bothered by him again. frightening experience indeed.

Yes I have. And you say goodbye, because it isn't fair to you or the other person if your heart's not in it.

This happened to me the first time that I was in love with someone. We dated for nearly a year and I loved him with all of my heart and soul. He, however, didn't love me the same way. For him I was more of a toy than a partner. It hurt me so very bad when we broke up, but I was eventually able to move on. Now, we saw each other one last time about two years after we broke up and that was when he admitted to me that we had indeed been together and he knew that he'd blown the best thing in his life.