My best friend is angry on me!

China
January 20, 2010 9:23pm CST
I called her several time, she did not pick up the phone, so i called her to her office today, and she said she don't want to talk to me! The worst part is i have no idea what i did wrong to upset her! I don't know what to do now. She won't pick the phone, and i don't want to bother her while she is working!I text her, but she doesn't reply. Help me! I really don't know what to do.
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@bren_yrra (354)
• Philippines
22 Jan 10
I experienced your situation once so I understand you.It was not really easy especially when you really love your best friend.It's really painful likewise when a friend ignores you.In your case, just try again to talk with her and be patient to find out her concern why she acts that way.It takes courage though to approach her even if she doesn't want to talk to you.If she continues to ignore you then it's just proper to give her a space.A saying goes,"Faults are thick when love is thin."So,you need to move on if she doesn't want to talk to you for now.In the future, once she realized that you never left her then she will still remember you and she will learn to forgive if fever you offended her once.True friendship is always coupled with unconditional love between persons involve.Despite the ups and downs in your friendship, despite the weaknesses of both parties, friendship will last especially when it is tested in different situations. If your friend really loves you, she will come back to you.Most of the time, pride hinders a good relationship.So, we need to be humble always, accept our mistakes or continue to be as you are especially when you think that you are doing the right thing.
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• China
25 Jan 10
That is very much true!Thanks for reading and responding my discussions!
@Reyah23 (640)
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
Bestfriend are like brother and sister, there are misunderstanding at times. Well, i believe that times heal all wound. Just give her time and space but don't stop on letting her know that you wanted to save your friendship.
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• China
22 Jan 10
Thank you!We are good now. She still need times to be alone, i will respect her.Thanks for reading and responding my discussions! Have a nice day!
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Jan 10
It is strange because you don't know why your friend is angry with you. Since you are best friends, it is a little mean for her not to pick up your phone or tell you the reason why she is angry with you. Perhaps you can ask another friend to ask her why. It is important to know what's wrong so that you can fix it. Good luck! I love China
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• China
22 Jan 10
Thanks. It's okay now. She finally text me back that she was not angry with me, she just in a bad mood. Don't feel talking to anyone.Thanks for reading and responding my discussions! Have a nice day!
@meng23 (145)
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
The first thing you should do is to remember the reason why she got angry with you. Then when you recall it. Ask apology with her. I know you can fix it. Maybe not now. But I know time would come. Because if she's really your bestfriend she would forgive you and accept you again if ever you've done a mistake. So meanwhile just recall what happen.
• China
22 Jan 10
I can't recall anything that might upset her. Last time we were on the phone we were happy, then we haven't meet for a week.Thanks for reading and responding my discussions! Have a nice day!
@bnx2212 (712)
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
Anger would subside.. just wait.. give her time to deal with her feelings. The more you pressure her, the more she would remember the reason why she's angry with you.
• China
22 Jan 10
Thanks for reading and responding my discussions! The problem has solved now!Have a nice day!