how can i be a good friend?

Philippines
January 20, 2010 9:49pm CST
ever since the class started my classmates are not so close to me and i don't know what is reason behind.
5 responses
@varron (453)
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
You can be a good friend when you are not cheating your friend in any matter. They say honesty is the best policy. If your friendship maintains honesty, then your friendship will last longer. It is really important to be honest with one another. It is a matter of trust and if you want to value you friendship, then you will treat each others somewhat closer like brothers and sisters. Having a real friends will make your life worth living. No man is an island as they also said. Friends is a social unit next to family. You can share some problems to your friend, problems that you cannot tell to your family. Valuing friends requires a high standard of love,respect and honesty. A good friend can be tested in the times that you have nothing in life.So keep many friends.
@varron (453)
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
Be nice to your classmate,always wear smile and determine what they do not want and stick to those they wanted as long as it won't harmed you personally,be friendly...start with one buddy and this will be the beginning or you friend network..
• Malaysia
22 Jan 10
Try talking to them and asking them. Sometimes the direct approach is better than speculating. Unless you can read minds, this is the best solution.
@Katie2009 (144)
• China
21 Jan 10
Start to talk to those classmates who were close to you before and talk to them about their vacations and activities had at home. Strange feelings of distance will gradually disappear after a while. And then you should participate more in class and try to cooperate with other class members. It is also necessary to ask yourself about whether you have said something or done something that hurt others' feelings before. Don't worry about it. People get a little remote from each other after a long break. Therefore, you probably should try to contact with your classmates during your holiday next time,to remain your friendship and passions.
@ghieptc (2522)
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
Okey, Participate in the classroom. Be friendly, select a person that will be you're buddy to talk about some problems. Don't be shy. Enjoy every moment of companionship. Make some bonding moment from fellow classmate in doing a task.
• India
21 Jan 10
Well i think you are a bit shy.Go to them and start talking with them.First say hello and then introduce yourself and speak of other things.Try to calm yourself down and take control of the situation.Its most important.no body wants to be a loner but some people are just not popular.You cant help this.Its personality which determines whether people like you or not.So try to be frank and jolly.Make people love you