The one you love...
By jho2010
@jho2010 (155)
Philippines
January 21, 2010 7:16am CST
....are you gonna stay with the one who loves you...? are you going back to the one you love...? someones gonna cry if they know they've lost you, someones gonna thanks the stars above.
can you relate from the lyrics of the song "the one you love"?
have you experience the thought of ending your present relationship to rekindle your relationship with your previous lover?
You have loved once and lost,your heart get broken,tears and sleepless nights...
...until someone came and help you healed the pain and taught you to love again, everything is alright now, with him by your side.
And then suddenly, your ex came to you and asking for a second chance to start all over again..and deep in your heart you know that the feelings are still there,
what are you going to do?
3 responses
@mylesnarvaez (5451)
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
hi! when i began reading the first line... i thought it was a lyrics to a song. and it is. hehe 
and quite familiar as it happens.
i thought before that if ever this would happen, i'd get a difficulty choosing between a present and a previous relationship. but no, not as hard as i thought.
i never go back to an ex. if deep in my heart i still love him... then deep in my heart the feelings will have to stay. i'm the type who would remain in a relationship thru its ups and downs and would try to hang on for as long as i could... for as long as we could both keep the love burning. if not, i'd quit.
if i am in a new relationship with a wonderful guy who taught me to trust and love again... what could be a better reason to turn my back on that love? i'm gonna stay with the one who loves me. if he is as wonderful as he sounds, then likely i'm already half-way in love with him already. hehehe and that says a lot in my book.
and quite familiar as it happens.
i thought before that if ever this would happen, i'd get a difficulty choosing between a present and a previous relationship. but no, not as hard as i thought.
i never go back to an ex. if deep in my heart i still love him... then deep in my heart the feelings will have to stay. i'm the type who would remain in a relationship thru its ups and downs and would try to hang on for as long as i could... for as long as we could both keep the love burning. if not, i'd quit.
if i am in a new relationship with a wonderful guy who taught me to trust and love again... what could be a better reason to turn my back on that love? i'm gonna stay with the one who loves me. if he is as wonderful as he sounds, then likely i'm already half-way in love with him already. hehehe and that says a lot in my book.@jho2010 (155)
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
hello myles! thanks for sharing...
i'm glad that you've made a right decision, staying with the one who loves you.I'm sure he would thanks the stars above,.... and your previous lover... will cry? well, i dont know,you should know that, hehe.
Same with me, it also happen now that i'm happily married when my first love came back asking for second chance.At first, i was confused, i wonder if the feelings is still there, then finally i realized that he's just a part of my life and the feeling is gone, after long years.I'm very sure now that my heart belongs to my husband only...hehe.
And like you i'm gonna stay with my husband who really loves me for life!!!
Best wishes to both of you!!!
@mylesnarvaez (5451)
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
i wish you both the best.
right now, i'm not with somebody. but given the scenario, that's how it would be for me, staying with the one who loves me.
right now, i'm not with somebody. but given the scenario, that's how it would be for me, staying with the one who loves me.
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
10 Feb 10
This is the classic break-up song. I think every person has on some level experienced a version of this. Everyone makes the decision they determine is best for them based on circumstances, pressures, what have you. The thing is that you're never sure what's truly right until it's too late to go back and choose the other path.
@arystine (1273)
• Philippines
21 Jan 10
I have not experienced this before. But if confronted with this situation, I'd rather be with the one I love. Crazy, but if I stay with the one who loves me, I guess there will be no more sparks because I will always long for the one I love who wants me back. I believe in second chances as long as the other person sincerely wants me back and promises to change and make up for his wrong deeds.
