What is your limit on toys?
By shell2784
@shell2784 (752)
United States
January 21, 2010 5:10pm CST
How many toys do you let your kids have?
We honestly have a room that's about 9ft x 25ft (yes that's 225 sf - bigger than some of my apartments!!!) for Joslynn's playroom. The house we bought actually used to hold a beauty salon and a contractor's office... so the beauty salon got converted into the playroom. There's so much cabinet space and drawers and the mirrors are GREAT for dressup!
BUT - all the drawers adn all the cabinets are full... plus this hangy thing with stuffed animals in it, a toy box, her dress up clothes are in a seperate basket/chest thing... another toy bin, her kitchen set, etc, etc....
About every 2 or 3 months i go thru with a garbage bag and clean out the toys I don't see in her hands... and some how... we end up with just as many all over again.
She honestly plays with most of everything she has.... so when is a lot... too much?
3 responses
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
22 Jan 10
Same story here shell. We also have a playroom with shelves and chests and closets full of toys. When is it enough? When you keep stepping on these toys at other parts of the house. When even your kids themselves ask you to get a new chest because the biggest you have could not fit all the toys anymore. Maybe once in every 2 months, I would go throught these toys and just stuff them in a garbage bag and dispose of them. Never mind telling the kids, because they'd surely object.
Thankfully, we have some people coming in and living with us for a few months starting next week. So for the past few weeks, we've been converting the playroom into a guest room. Which meant a lot of the toys just disappeared.
@Raven7317 (691)
• United States
22 Jan 10
HI Shell - wow - that's a big playroom! LOL
Well, my little guy has his own playroom too; we also have a room off the kitchen that has become his playroom downstairs. I can admit, I have a neurotic side and I was stressing over toys being everywhere, loosing pieces, mixing up sets, etc. So when he was little we taught him two things that keep me sane.
One thing is, certain toys belong certain places... we have "indoor toys and outdoor toys" - he knows, once a toy hits outside, it's not allowed back in the house. We also have "playroom toys" and "fishroom toys" (The large room off the kitchen holds only a large fishtank) So he knows he can't constantly lug stuff up and down the stairs.
The other thing we taught him was 'rotation' of toys. When he gets a cache of toys, like his B-day or Xmas, he has to make room for the new stuff by deciding what he wants to rotate out. So, he can give the toys to someone else, he can rotate them down to the fishroom, or they can become outside toys. He selects what gets rotated out and he then 'organizes' his room the way he wants it with all his new stuff.
He's really quite good at these concepts. I mean, don't get me wrong, every few weeks, I do still have to go around and make sure everything is where it should be. A playroom toy may end up in the fishroom or vice versa, an indoor toy may end up outside, and the worst, an outside toy may be snuck in! It's all okay, I just really wanted to teach him early to keep track of this things, take care of them, share what he has... and knowing myself, I wanted to eliminate the need for me having to constantly lug toys up and down the stairs, in and out of the backyard, and most of all - keep him from ending up with too much stuff!
But like you, I don't get rid of anything unless he really doesn't play with it, it's broken, or he says he wants to 'give it to someone.'
I guess I would say as long as they appreciate it, use it, keep track of it, help keep it cleaned up and you have the space - there's nothing wrong with it!
@shell2784 (752)
• United States
22 Jan 10
Yes - its a very big room! lol But what the heck else would we do with an old beauty salon? lol EVENTUALLY when the kids are a little older and no longer have the need for a playroom... that 1/2 of the house is getting converted into a master bedroom...
BUT - to get back on track... I do allow some outside toys inside... but only in the winter months... such as ONE tricycle or something of that nature so she can ride in the basement when its too cold, or snowy or icy to play outside. That way she doesn't have to completely give her up bike riding - PLUS she's having a hard time learning how to work the pedals, so this way there's not a big break in the winter.
I try my best not to get her toys that are more or less sets right now... she LOVES to mix and match, which is fine, but, like you... I like a litle more order - so if I know its not going to happen, I just stay away with it for now. AMAZINGLY she always knows where everything is. She always helps me clean up her playroom so when I do get down to put stuff away, other than the obvious things, I ask her where she wants them.
I've contemplated getting rid of the counter where the salon chairs would have been. There are a bunch of drawers in them, which come in handy... but I'm thinking it might be more beneficial to dosomething else in there. Either way tho, its working well for us.
I'm just glad the whole house is on one floor - cuz I wouldn't want to always be lugging toys up and down either! haha
Oh, we do the "inside/outside", "bedroom/playroom" toys... but then I also have the rule that once it goes in the tub, it stays in the bathroom... SO now I have a big ol' pile of bath tub toys that we're going to have to go thru too! lol
@JDLofton (51)
• United States
21 Jan 10
I did not have allot of toys as my kids do now. But I guess that comes with the changing of life. I guess so they have more than we had when we were little. But we clean out their toys that they don't play with anymore. We give them to a thrift shop or give them to someone else that has little kids that don't have that toy.
@shell2784 (752)
• United States
22 Jan 10
Yeah - I mean, I'm only 25... so I'm not that old or anything, but I KNOW that I didn't have that many toys. I'm pretty sure my brother and I had one toybox in the livingroom and if our toys didn't fit in it, something was getting thrown away.
It really is overwhelming to say the least - but I don't mind it. She LOVES hanging out with her playroom and when other kids come over she's always so proud to show off her room for her toys. She loves sharing with everyone and this way we always have enough to go around! haha
I have probably 5 big garbage bags in the basement full of toys. Now some of them are probably garbage (missing pieces, just worn out, etc) but I bet most of them are in decent shape.
I don't care to donate to goodwill as much anymore because I just feel that they are charging way too much for their stuff - but i have thought about calling the local food bank and seeing if they have anyone in mind for some toys. Maybe I'll give her a call today - I like donating to them.