to give or to receive?
@beatrizguiselle (1118)
Spain
January 21, 2010 6:55pm CST
Pleasure, do you prefer to provide your partner or to be provided pleasure?
I believe providing is a big ego booster, and not just that but it also satisfies you knowing you can satisfy your partner.
Of course getting it back feels great too, but what is more important to you? To give or to receive?
8 responses
@mikaelalexis (399)
• Philippines
23 Jan 10
The best thing that you can do is just think if giving without expecting anything in return. You will only get disappointed if you thought of giving because you might get the favor back.
In my case, I find pleasure in giving my all. It's just a big bonus for me if the pleasure is given back to me. So just give it your best shot. You'll see, the returns are awesome!
@mikaelalexis (399)
• Philippines
23 Jan 10
No offense. It may sound like giving advices but I'm just sharing my thoughts. Be it as it may, these are all based on my experience.
@beatrizguiselle (1118)
• Spain
23 Jan 10
Are you giving advise? I was asking for opinions, but thank you anyways.
@beatrizguiselle (1118)
• Spain
31 Jan 10
Oh, No offense taken, but it did sound a little out of the question here, but I do appreciate you giving advise, don´t take it the wrong way, it might help others.
@healthbeauty (483)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
To give... I always feel good when I make someone happy. It is also a pleasure if someone give something to me. :)
@beatrizguiselle (1118)
• Spain
1 Feb 10
Yes! I agree with you, making that someone happy makes us feel full of joy!
@Allie_xoxo (1063)
• Canada
22 Jan 10
I like both very much. My man loves to give and give and give, and I'd never complain over that. To give makes me feel needed and desired, to recieve is a delicious pampering.
@beatrizguiselle (1118)
• Spain
22 Jan 10
Yes, well said! And who would complain about receiving so much 
I know you dont
I know you dont
@Nameless_ (1180)
• Australia
22 Jan 10
I think it's a two way thing. You have to both give AND receive to feel it both. :) Well, that's what I think. :) What about others?
@beatrizguiselle (1118)
• Spain
22 Jan 10
Yes indeed, giving and receiving is more of a balanced thing.
@beatrizguiselle (1118)
• Spain
22 Jan 10
Agreed, pleasing your partner and giving so much of you means a whole lot when it comes down to it.
@EmberSilence (22)
• United States
30 Jan 10
I always feel uncomfortable receiving the pleasure. I get off by giving the pleasure...I'm a head person...I like knowing I have the ability to make a guy go crazy.
@beatrizguiselle (1118)
• Spain
31 Jan 10
Oh! That sounds like someone I know, I know exactly what you mean... I also do feel better when giving than receiving.
@karma118 (294)
• United States
22 Jan 10
Well, I totally enjoy recieving more than I enjoy pleasuring, but it wasn't always that way... My long term- boyfriend doesn't "get off" as easier as some of the others I've dated before. Actually, he rarely "gets off" at all! So, I enjoy recieving MUCH better! ;)
@Avinigav (238)
• Indonesia
22 Jan 10
Ego is not a good thing to be kept. But when you come with this question about to give or receive, it's sensitive. The most important do not let your ego out when you at that time. It will ruin the situation, make something bad between you and your couple. So, each of you always try to make pleasure. If your couple at that time shows she want to be pleasured but not to pleasure you, you must understand that. Talk about that after that time. Talk nicely. It would be better than you have a fight in a middle of that time. :)
