Children can catch more pressure?
By kevinll
@kevinll (967)
China
January 21, 2010 7:47pm CST
We could meet many pressure on work or else. Sometimes we complain it when children are with us. Maybe we don't care more about it, we just want to relax and express our feeling. However parents who push themselves too hard at work may harm their children's behaviour. Of cousrse they shoull know and learn how to deal with pressure. I think we should express more positive attitude when we are with children. They have more pressure on school. Do you thnk they can catch more pressure from you? How about you?
4 responses
@minotaur87 (769)
• Singapore
17 Feb 10
I think we shouldn't compare pressure in absolute terms, but rather in relative terms. For most people who grow up from a children to an adult, they would always think that as they grow older, the pressure they need to take always increases. However, if we compare a child to his schoolwork pressure and an adult to his work pressure, both are actually same. This is because when children at their age, the pressure they can handle is rather little so schoolwork is a great pressure to them. For adults, they have already handled so many pressures, so work pressure is actually no different from schoolwork pressure a child handles. Of course, positive attitude is always good when you are together with children since children like to imitate the behaviours of the adult. However, there must be also communications between parents and children to express their feelings about pressure within them so that children will know that they are not the only one facing pressure.
@KicDash (89)
• United States
22 Jan 10
It's true that children has more pressure because they're curious on everything and they behavior changes constantly, because they usually tend to imitate what others do. It depends on their parents if they want to raise a good child or not.
