unreasonable hate
By nimette
@nimette (338)
Philippines
January 21, 2010 9:23pm CST
have you ever unreasonably hated someone? i know someone who i never wanted to talk with because i know i'm just going to hurt him by being rude. guess what he lives in our house. he's my cousin. we talk but i avoid prolonging it. somehow i know im wrong so whenever i talk to him i try to make my voice a little sweeter. i dont know there's something about him that repulses me. weird, eh?
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3 responses
@sharlionse (739)
• Philippines
22 Jan 10
It might not be weird at all, maybe you have something inside that you just don't want to admit. That may be the reason why you hate him. Or maybe it's just now that you have lived with him or been close to him that's why there is still the feeling that you are strangers to each other.
In my case, yes, I have unreasonably hated someone-my bf's ex-girlfriend. I don't even now her but I know I hate her. Maybe because she came first in my bf's life but there is really no good reason to hate her. Thank God she doesn't know me.. LOL!
Well, one of the most common reasons of hatred is insecurity. I know that because I always feel that, for some reasons. Well, just let time pass by maybe that would build the gap between you both and hopefully you will forget that unreasonable hate that you feel.
@nimette (338)
• Philippines
22 Jan 10
hmm ive been thinking about this feeling i have and somehow i'm scared because maybe the reason why i hate him is because we are alike in many ways? my parents actually tried to make me realize that because they notice my distaste was so obvious. i've been introspecting a lot to figure this out and realized were not alike at all, and my friends assured me of that. he talks a lot, very good social skills but at the end of the day i noticed people get tired of him.
@allknowing (137939)
• India
22 Jan 10
There is something simmering within you that has developed over a period of time without knowing perhaps where it all started. He gives out bad vibes which do not match with your chemistry. You can do some analysis of sorts and take time over it and I am sure you will be able to pinpoint the location. This will affect your health since he is staying with you.I too have someone in my life who I cannot stand but that person is not in my life.
@iwinagain (545)
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22 Jan 10
No, I do not hate somebody for no reason at all. They have to do something really wrong to me for me to hate them.
