When can you say that a person really loves you?

can someone know his lover really love him? he affirm it through the dialogue or the action? i don't know what is the real love. everyone can not clearily know themselves have a real love or not. so why do you centre on this problem.i think it is not any significance.

If a person has been going out with you for along time then they do show a comitment.Anyone can say i love you and alot of people say that they love a person after a week or so,but they are just words as i am sure that they have said i love you lots of times to lots of different people in a short space of time.A person means the words when they have been with you for 6 months or more as by then they know more about you as well as you know more about them.

hi tom. in my own opinion, a person really loves you when inspite of all the negative things about you, she/he is willing to accept you wholeheartedly without any doubts. loves you without any ifs... and having no doubts in his/her mind thinking what if???

hi tom_soarhigh! Saying "I Love You" isn't enough. For me, it should be more than words. I feel that a person is sincere when he say this three words after doing a lot of things for me. Caring about you sincerely. You can actually feel his/her sincerity deep in your heart. If you know the person completely then, there is a big chance of believing if he/she really mean it.

when I was in state can not do anything else, but she's/he's still there beside me and hope that I could rise and succeed.