i will tell you what happened, but first i need your comments...
By obe212003
@obe212003 (2299)
Philippines
January 22, 2010 8:11am CST
A girl is engaged to be married to her fiance of four years. Her fiance apparently had to go and attend a seminar that would last for a month, during which time, the girl met a sweet guy through an acquaintance and became friends. They bumped into each other a lot of times and they eventually get know more and shared so many things... Unexpectedly without a doubt, they fell in love. To make the story short, the girl gave up everything for this new guy.
On the other hand, this guy met his sister's best friend who also happens to be engaged to be married. Again, same story as above, the girl gave up everything for this guy.
Now, the guy is confused and bothered... honestly, he loved them both.. honestly, he cant make a choice... honestly he cant afford to hurt them both after they have gone through... This guy has to do something reasonable... ????
4 responses
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
23 Jan 10
welcome to the wonderful world of mylot. is this true? or just a movie or a book. how can you be engaged to someone and had a relationship for four years when you are not emotionally stable. i can not believe that in our new generation there are people who are engaged but are not emotionally stable. and after having a relationship for four years will just blow it away for a guy she met for just a few weeks? in a few weeks they get to know more and shared so many things? this is insane har har har. sorry for the reaction but i can not believe that something like this can really happen.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
23 Jan 10
actually this is really true... it happened years ago, when i was still younger. They were both emotionally stable, intelligent, and unique in a way that i really did fall in love with both equally. Definitely the blame should be on me, knowing that they were both engaged. As i said, love happens unexpectedly and mysteriously... and to tell you the truth, i really dont know what they saw in me, how they really loved me and gave up everything including the wrath of their families.
Fortunately, i was able to had the courage to tell them the truth. And you know what? i let go... a decision that really changed my life.
Both are happily married now...
@valentinesdiner (1214)
• United States
23 Jan 10
3 words... engaged four years?
What message does that give either of the fiances?
@mercuryman3a (2477)
• India
22 Jan 10
This is a tricky situation. he will have to make up his mind and make a choice. He can not keep two girls in the limbo and keep up the relationship with both of them. He has to tell both of them the truth and see who is more accommodating and who accepts him for what he is. Then he must tell the other one that he can not marry her. No way can he have both unless he resorts to bigamy.
