How Do You Know You Are In Love

India
January 22, 2010 10:23am CST
I mean love is a strange thing.I personally have experianced it until it went sour.Neways love by defination cannot be explained in my point of view.So how do you know you are in love.I want some good answers from you guys
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@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
23 Jan 10
When you are in love, as if your day is always full of colors. Some of the noted indications are the following: a. You are always happy b. You always want that person close in your sight c. You are so self conscious d. You try to look good always e. You are smiling often by your self f. You are kind to others g. You are always in good mood H. Your heart beats so fast everytime you are with the person I. Your eyes are glowing j. You always take a bath for a date k. You often imagine alone L. You always have extra money M. You are spending so much load for text and call N. you are sweet even if you are not really a sweet person O. You become stupid and crazy The space is no longer enough to elaborate all the signs for a person who is really in love.
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@Cheiyen (317)
• Philippines
23 Jan 10
hello, denverlc! your funny account over this discussion keeps me giggling! LOL! but in my point of view, it makes me appreciate myself more and the people around me. i spend more money to call more and send sms. i sleep late because our conversations consume an hour, two or even last over midnight. that makes me get up late, of course. LOL! i can work more and spend more time in the internet. i get email, sms and offline messages in a day. i get very early morning calls at times. i don't get tired listening or talking to him. i miss him a lot when i don't hear from him. i think of him before i go to bed and when i wake up in the morning. you do things you've never thought you'd be capable of doing. your days are filled with rainbows and you're always on top. some people have other symptoms of falling in love but to sum it up, you can tell yourself "LIFE'S GOOD AND LOVE'S BEAUTIFUL" over and over again. i decided to squash my feelings because i got scared. but i suffered a lot. he came back and never gave me a chance to run away again. cheers to love!
• India
23 Jan 10
Oh my god.I felt exactly this way when i fell in love for the first time.Sadly that ended up in a bad way!!
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
22 Jan 10
hm, love is strange but if you are in love,it`s simple to detect it. one of course you are always thingking of him/her, you always admire him/her and you only say in your heart that she/he is the best for you
• India
22 Jan 10
However its not that simple.We never know whos the best for us
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 10
let the time prove it to you if she is deserve to you.you dont know she deserve to you before you started to recognize her very deeply
• India
23 Jan 10
Time is a very big factor i think in building a realationship and when its love we need to take it easy
@abhi_bangal (5533)
• Ahmednagar, India
23 Jan 10
There are many facets to love and love has many dimensions. Many of us here might have been in love at one point of time. There might be still some who are still in love. I completely agree with you when you say that love is a strange thing. Strange as it is, it is simple as well. Love does not need anything. There are no such hard and fast rules to tell about if you are in love or not. But as you said, you have experienced love, so have I. And I can say from my experience that there are some things that you perceive or feel like doing (almost for nothing). The world suddenly seems to be a beautiful place to live in. You just cannot point fingers to anything in this world. You feel that there is all goodliness in this world and nothing bad can happen. You feel that the world has a lot to offer and your mindset at such times is strange too. The ghost of sacrific is mounted on your back ages ago and you become a non-materialistic entity. I would love to talk about these things in greater details still, but what I have experienced is that nothing is like what you or me feel when in love with someone. All comes back to square one when the building of love comes crashing down. The time after that seems very cruel. The world seemed to come to eat us. Nevertheless, that was of no use as one has to live with the same hurt deep inside. The philosophy to see the love and world changes and we - at least I - come to the conclusion that, love is nothing but just an illusion, though love has been compared with god. So, love is god or love is an illusion - the argument simply continues.
@CRIVAS (1815)
• Canada
22 Jan 10
First off, good question. There are a lot of different ways that people know that they are in love and I suppose that there are all different. Since I am not a mind reader I will tell you how I knew that I was in love with my boyfriend turned husband. I knew that I loved my husband when I would be at my worst and he would still tell me that he loved me and that I was beautiful. I know that i am in love with him because no matter what flaws he has, I am still willing to love and stand by him. I know that I am in love because every morning when I wake up, my husband is the first thing that I think about and the last before I go to sleep. I know that I am in love because there is no one on this green earth that I would rather be with than my husband and our children. I know that I am in love because every time that my husband walks into a room, my breath catches and I feel as though the world stops turning. I know that I am in love because I can feel it with every fiber of my being. And most importantly I know that I am in love because I have never felt the way I feel when I am with my husband. I hope that my answer is what you were looking for. Happy mylotting.
• India
22 Jan 10
Thats a really good answer CRIVAS.I love the way you described it.I wish that you and your lovely husband the very best for your future.I sincerely hope he loves you even when he is really old...
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
According to one of our philosophy courses way back in college, when you say " IN love", you are referring to infatuation. You base it more on the spark/feelings. When that spark is gone, your supposed to be love thing fades away. When you say LOVE, it's eternal and unconditional. just like marriage. Well, I've been "IN love for a couple of times. It always turns out sour since it's unrequited. so sad.
• India
25 Jan 10
College is not a good place to fall in love .Its my personal opinion and it matches with you i guess.Yes the infatuation is sometimes referred to as "being in love".but love has a deeper meaning to it,which i think takes a lot of time to realize!
@brymel25 (285)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
i would know that im inlove when i always want to be with that person or i always think of him. You are definitely inlove when you feel that you want to know that person better or when you hope of sharing a future together.=)