Forgetful wife

Hi bhanu, I feel sorry for your wife. I personally feel that there is something on her mind which is causing her to forget things and when it is pointed out she probably feels bad and tries to defend herself...why dont you have a frank discussion with her and try to find out what is on her mind - all the best

Hi I can take neither side. We all forget things and there is absolutely no point in arguing after the fact. If it is really important to you write down what needs to be remembered and if your wife fails to do what she agreed to do bring out the note pad and discuss the matter with her. You also say your wife is addicted to TV serials. Does she have a job outside the home? if not do you have small children that stress her out? if not maybe she is unhappy and bored and needs to find something to do outside the home. Either a job, further her education by taking courses or do some hours of volunteer work. Discuss all these things as a couple. Constant quarreling in a marriage wears it down, grinds the marriage down and eventually the love you have for each other will be used up.

I shall take neither side Bhanusb. I learned long ago that when it comes to matters matrimonial I am nearly always in the wrong. We all forget things and quite often I think "I wasn't asked/told that". However, for the sake of the peace I usually admit defeat. Life is far to short to always be quarreling. Good luck.

nope cant get into this one. maybe you both should write down what needs to be remembered by each and mark them off as you go. thats what i do for myself. altho son and i both forget some things but then we dont blame each other just say, oh well. will remember next time

In our house we both forget, we must put things in writing just to keep up with life. It's not fun to blame each other. The thing is busy humans forget as well as older ones. Blessings

hi bhanusb, forgetfull ness is common,do not worry,if she rude convey her and make her joyful with other thing like some gift and take to her to the shopping,what ever you wish to do do tht thing and or tell some thing to cover that forgetfull ness,have a nice day

Hi bhanusb, for starters a wife who is a fool is never desirable. I am responding to what you advised poor Lamb. He must be searching for Indian wisdom in that. I dont think it is addiction to tv. As I mentioned under Kiran's post, it must be something that is eating her brain. Like have you been talking nicely to another lady of late and did she find something incriminating? he he. Kidding, but I am serious. Commercials are enough to bring us back to the world. It is not like sitting in front of system, you know!

Ok I have to ask , is it possible that your wife has a ton of stuff to do ? Are you two newly wed ( or married for less than a year ) ? I asked those questions because if one or the other is true then that could be why she forgets somethings . I say that because , and I'm actually going to use myself as a example here , I am a pretty much still new wife ( me and my hubby will be married for a year in Feb. ) who isn't used to doing a lot of this yet because this is my first marriage and even though I try my best not to sometimes I forget some of the stuff my hubby tells me because I'm usually busy cleaning house , cooking , going to pay the bills , putting in applications for a job , etc. then my hubby comes home and is like did you do this or pick this up from the story for example and I just think oh man I knew I had forgot something and tell him that I'm sorry and that I honestly didn't mean to forget . By me saying this I'm not taking sides with anybody in your relationship , I just thought that if your wife is in a similar situation having somebody tell you something like this might help give you some insight as to why this is happening.