What to do and not to do to be loved???

Sometimes, love has to end whether you've been doing good or not maybe because you weren't meant for each other and you have to accept that fact even if it truly hurts your feelings. You really don't have to do everything and to avoid everything just to be perfect for the one you love for it is impossible to happen. You just have to be who you are. If a person accepts you and your imperfections, then that is true love. I don't think you are stupid only because someone cheated on you. The one who is cheating is the one who is stupid because that someone lets go of a very valuable person. You have to learn how to love yourself first in order for you to be loved by others.

welcome guileglad! the first thing you need to do before starting a relationship is to love yourself first. depending your happiness from other people is not fair. if you love yourself enough, then you can consider yourself ready to love. finding someone to love and care for and being loved back is wonderful. can you imagine how lucky people are to have found the love of their life and wake up each day beside them? but searching for someone who matches your personality is not that easy. some people break their heart over and over again but because they keep believing in love, then they get their reward. be happy as you are and show your real self to your partner. men and women are different beings so it's a common thing to argue once in a while. you have to be considerate of your partner but don't allow abusing each other's kindness. don't blame yourself for your break up/s. some people are simply mismatched. it's like things just don't work out well for the both of you. it's really safe to show your real self and to do things for each other naturally, not just simply to impress. it's good to give each other a space, too. have your partner miss you at times. it helps. there are sites that can help you learn about relationships, mean and women. men find it difficult to read our minds and vice versa. but thanks to male relationship experts for spoiling some beans. have faith in love. enjoy mylotting!