when friendship turns to love
@GreatLife4You (61)
United States
January 22, 2010 11:36pm CST
It's quite common isn't it? Us falling in love with our best friends. Not a very nice feeling to have because we get into such a dilemma. But this sad love story does deserve to be read. Maybe we can identify with it.
3 responses
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
It's not usual that you will fall in love with your friend. Because he/she is always there in all the up's and down's of your life. You will find comfort whenever he/she is around. However, the dilemma is keeping that friendship after a relationship. Other would choose to keep friendship that is they will not let out they're emotions or feelings to their friends. Others would like to risk their friendship in order for the friend to be aware of what he/she feels towards his/her friend.
I've been there, and I choose friendship because I cannot afford to loose my friend after a relationship. I try to be away from him but we still keep in touch. So its been almost 3 decades now that we are friends. And still counting and I happy to my decisions.
@vycess (1588)
• Saudi Arabia
24 Jan 10
two words for that kind of situation - "Friends suck" Why? because of they don't want to say to each other what they feel! Some say that they are afraid that the friendship might be broken when they admit he/she loves his/her friend. And some just suppressed what they feel not knowing where will it lead.... Just don't like that kind of situation.
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
23 Jan 10
thats nicer if your partner was your bestfriend. because you two knew already your weaknesses and the stuff about yourself. you only deal with a little things between the two of you. how i wish i can find someone that is a friend of mine. LOL
