from friend to be a girlfriend

Indonesia
January 23, 2010 9:04am CST
you have a friend that so close with you.but u want to relations that more close.and as long as u began to like her.but you too shy to tell that you love her.usually what do you do to explain that u love her so much?u want to be her boyfriend
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4 responses
janale6
@janale6 (51)
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24 Jan 10
gather enough strength. and confidence. who knows, the girl also feels the same way like you do,^^
ainur_rooney
@ainur_rooney (261)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 10
but,how's way we know if she love we too?
janale6
@janale6 (51)
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3 Feb 10
you can see it through her actions. her care. if you observe the way she speaks. if she can still look you straight to the eyes. and just remember. take the risk. it's a great feeling that you can tell her and let her know what you really feel towards her~
xindyzhuzhu
@xindyzhuzhu (1)
• China
24 Jan 10
Tell another friend, ask him/her to tell the girl that you love her.
ainur_rooney
@ainur_rooney (261)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 10
nice idea.: -D I dont think it before:-)
ladym33
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
23 Jan 10
Well if you are good friends with her you could always make little hints in conversation and see if she is receptive. You could say something like, "I wonder how it would be if you and I were to date." Then you could see if she seems receptive to the idea or if she tries to ignore or pass off what you just said. Then you will know if maybe you should pursue her on a romantic level or not. Keep in mind that girls sometimes just want guys to be their friends. Can you accept it if she does not want to be romantic, will you still be able to be her friend after that? I had a friend I loved like a brother and he was in love with me, I could never have felt that way about him because like I said I loved him like a brother. Eventually our friendship had to end because of his romantic feelings for me. It broke my heart.
ray3589000
@ray3589000 (115)
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24 Jan 10
I agree with ladym33 you should give her some hints and stuff. If she showed some kind of positive reaction, it could mean she feels the same. But if so don't be hasty and tell her right away or the next day,she could misunderstand. As you gradually fall more in love with her, obviously stand by her side and try not to be a jealous friend. Be considerate and when time is right confess.