Talk too much

Hi. Just like you, I couldn't stand talking to people who are loud and noisy. It really gives me headache. As much as possible, I minimize contacts/interactions with them unless I have no choice or is required at work.

oh yeah..I've meet people like this as well..I don't mind people being talkative as I am myself too, but that they don't let you get a word in this is too much. It gets on my nerves too.

My father-in-law speaks too fast .It looks as if he is in a hurry whu\ile speaking.It is too difficult to find out what he is saying unless we know him well.He talks too much.His topics are interesting but he don't give chance for others to speak.he keeps on doing it and don't care how others fell about him. I speak fast but I don,t talk much

I know that there are alot of people out there that do that as well as they are the types of people that do not like listening to anyother person as well.I have a friend that do that all the time even if it is on the phone and the conversation always seems o be one sided as well and alot of the things they are saying are the same old things that they have already told you time and time again.

Yes One of my cousin is a person who talks much and is very fast too. My son was initially a bit fast in talking but now he has grown up and learned to speak slowly and to the point.

Hello.:-) I have a friend like that who is a German national. His English is spoken differently from that of a native English man. I can hardly understand sometimes what he is ranting about ( especially when he is drunk). Plus, whenever I can grasp a little of what he is trying to tell me and tried to reply, the sooner I open my mouth, he'd start talking again. Worse, a different topic this time.

hi java yes I have a friend who is a talker but shes lonely and she needs someone to listen so I do,heck I am retired and outside mylotting I am not busy, I know they can drive you nuts but somehow we all have faults and I am sure not perfect either. she also complains all the time about the food, but I am a caring person have been all my life so okay I let her ramble on. who knows maybe she came in this form from Christ himself, anyway I dont turn people away, I just make an excuse after awhile and go on about my business. If I helped her in some way I will feel better. But no I do not snub people.

I know a lot of people like that. I am probably one of them. Stimulating conversation happens when a bunch of people just jump in and share thoughts. If you have ever conversation like a meeting with each person waiting there time, life would simply be boring. Lighten up and just jump in there and share your thoughts. I you have anything worth listening to, people will shut up and listen.

hello, java09! are you referring to a person or to a talking machine? LOL i like to talk myself but not to the extent of getting in the nerves of other people. i believe in talking with sense and if i have nothing good to talk about, i just hold my peace. people who talk too much have too much in their heads. perhaps stress, frustrations, hatred or anger, dreams, observations (they won't let anything come to pass) and whatever you call the others. LOL these people may be the lonely ones and they need attention because they haven't experienced the freedom of speech or expression when they were young or even until this time in their homes. i feel sad for these people you know because i've met quite a number of them ALREADY. you're not responsible to listen to them so just let their words just pass you by. excuse yourself gracefully or answer in a way that you want to end their talking, a subtle way of saying "please stop. i don't wanna hear from you anymore." sure they give you stress and headache so it's a good idea to keep a distance from them, put those earplugs on, show them that you're focused at work or if any of these doesn't work, grab your mug or glass of water and take a few walks outside while you take a deep breath. if you give them the feeling that you're not interested, they'll eventually minimize talking (at least). sitting next to them is not a good idea. that's why my desk is near the door. LOL

Yes, I know those people who talk like that. They talk and talk and talk and by the time they are quiet, I long since forgot what I wanted to say. So I have to let them talk even more and thus I never really get a word. Those people are far from the worst thing in the world but they can wear on your nerves after a while by talking on and on.

This is funny because I talk to much and I know I talk to much. Some people do not know that they are annoying and talk way to much.They like to pretend that they do not talk to much a lot of times alot of people who talk to much are professional gossipers. I do not wish to gossip other peoples business and when I am talking to much it is about serious subjects that I am passionate about. But I do sometimes give people time to talk as I do have to breathe..lol

Yes my friend talks too much that she does not let me get a word in so after a while,I just pretend to listen.A talk should be between two persons if it's just one person talking then it's really not a conversation.It's always good to hear what people have to say,but they also have to let you get a word in.

I know a couple of people like this too and generally find it is because they are so self-obsessed.

Yes i've known people like this as well. Though wierdly, i think i like listening to people like them because they always have a lot to talk about and it brings new topics into you're life and makes you think about new things and how what there saying could affect you.

I take these things in my stride as every human being has some good in them. There are a few who do not allow others to talk least realising that no one listens to them, because after a while our mind gets tired and roams alse where. But if we show signs of boredom may be they will change.

hello Java, gosh i dont want to encountered a people like that! they make me pissed! but im still polite and hold my temper as long as i can. in my everyday life my work is to face clients and to talk people. so i also meet people w/ different attitude w/ different cultures and having different ways how to speak. she dont even let me speak on my returned! i need to take paracetamol after that to get rid of my head ache. she is one of my client now all i can do i to excuse my self everytime i see her coming to my counter. beause i just dont want her to see my facial reactions while she is talking so better to say alibi than to make her feel bad that i dont wanna talk to that person :) happy my lotting