when I'm upset I'll go shopping,what about you?

hi friend.. wheeeeeeeeeeehh!i love shopping!makes me feel good and happy... mostly i want to buy clothes and heels!and eat any food i like! to make me feel that i dont have any problem...heheheh! it takes away our stress and it gives us satisfaction of happiness.. i want to go shopping with my best friend.. we can do all the chit chats we want...and just have fun with out thinking about our problems..heheheh! life is short you know! cheers! have a nice day! see ya!

hello ella, when i am upset, i am usually quite and wanted to be alone...haha and just think or just make my mind busy with other things... how i wish i could also do shopping but no, its not for me since i don't have much money to use, and besides, when i am upset i don't like going out...i feel lazy most of the time! haha so i better stay in the house, go online, and talk to some friends or just post in mylot! haha or better i would just go to sleep hoping that when i wake up, i am already fine...

I do that too but have learned a trick to play with myself. I go through the store and pick the things I want and put them in my basket. I then leave the basket but am still satisfied. It feels like I shopped and bought so the feeling is the same. I usually don't need those items anyway.

Sometimes if I have money to spend, I also shop to lessen the pain or disappointments I am feeling. I also make sure that I will buy something that will really satisfy me emotionally. Most of the time, it should be something that will make me look better. It should be any of the following: clothes, wallet or bag. I seldom buy shoes because I hate the fit of new shoes. lol

I must agree that this is not bad to go shopping if you feel upset. And then you will not concentrate on the troubles and relax yourself swiftly. But in my opinion, it is merely a temporary solution. After the shopping, you must face to the affairs that make you upset and solve them.

hi ella..you said that actually you do not enjoy shopping, but finally you said that most of your money spent in shopping..hehehe..I think shopping is close to woman way. I really enjoy shopping actually but I often have limited money so I will think twice whenever I want to shoppe something..:(

Wow! I wish I could do the same as you whenever I get upset. But well, I do that, too, sometimes. It's just that I choose to be happy most of the time instead of dwelling into being in a bad mood. Anyway, aside from occasionally going into a shopping spree, I go to a spa for a massage. It relaxes me and soothes my mind. I also spend some time with my friends and fiance. We either watch movie or just chill out. If they're unavailable, I just read a good book or the Bible, or watch feel-good movies on DVD or my favorite TV series.

hi there ella. i want to be like that also to go on shopping when im in bad mood or upset but the problem is i dont have money to spend on shopping and it might also makes feel in bad mood! lol.. if im upset i need to be alone in a moment and just to think. because if im not going to do that all poeple arrounds me can see on my face that im really upset.

sometimes i go shopping when got bad mood.but mostly i just doing window shopping,not buy anything.just walk around the mall and enjoy the display lol.i think it is enough for me to cure my stress, but if i got enough money,i will be buy something interesting :)

Yes I do when I get mad I go shopping because it helps to relax me it gets rid of all my stress.After I have shopped I feel better and have forgotten about I was even mad about.Shopping helps me a lot.