how do you act when someone courts you?

January 24, 2010 2:54am CST
how do you act when someone courts you and you know to yourself that you dont like the guy? are you going to ignore him? he's making you feel that he likes you, and that he does anything for you. sometimes, it gets to the point that he's kind of annoying already.. do you tell him directly that "i dont like you" or what would you say to him? what would you do?
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healthbeauty
@healthbeauty (483)
• Philippines
24 Jan 10
This happened to me and that time my friends told me to ignore him but I told them that he is also a human and we must not hurt his feelings by ignoring him. I let him become to be my friend and I told him that Im not ready for any commitment I just want for now to have friends. By that you don't hurt him that much not like ignoring him or getting angry with him.
janale6
@janale6 (51)
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24 Jan 10
i guess this would work. thanks^^
neelianoscet
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
24 Jan 10
No, does not need to ignore him but eventually befriend him as you could really know the person unless you spend sometimes but their are times you really have no feeling or complete absence of interest so it is best to tell him frankly than to give him a false hope. Since love need to be mutual and it is not a one sided love affair, both should have a strong attraction and attachment for a relationship to work.
janale6
@janale6 (51)
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24 Jan 10
but sometimes he gives meaning to my actions. to think, i treat all my guy friends the way i treat him.
luckymy2008
@luckymy2008 (260)
• China
24 Jan 10
Hi janale, as for me, I won't tell him "I don't like you" directly cause it is really hurts. What I will do is keeping distance with him and let him to know he is just a ordinnary friend to you in a indirect way. If he can't realise that for a while, keep away from him.
gambamarcela
@gambamarcela (1012)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
If you don't like the guy who is courting you,just make an alibi that would really bug him off. You can also say good things about him but the bottomline is you can only offer him friendship.Or think of an attitude that would turn him off.haha..cruel it is. But, never say it to his face that you don't like him. it's an insult for the guy's part.