Show some flesh

Hello, my dear.:-) I +don't think there is something wrong with a little flesh baring.:-) And, you are correct that there are also other things to consider aside from the outside beauty. Things that truly last longer if not permanently in the minds of the people we interact with every day of our lives.I must agree with you on this.Thus, bare flesh is just a come on to what is more substance-full from with in us.:-) Thank you, Esjosh for sharing your thoughts.:-)

I didn't post this picture here with the thought that I look "very pretty". In fact, this was taken after a week of sleepless nights in the hospital. But, I must say thank you for the compliments, Esjosh.Kinda flaterring.LOL Enjoy the weekend.:-)

Thank you for agreeing on it with me as you are very also very pretty not only from outer fleshes (According to your picture) but also from your thoughts (your words portraits) also.

im wondering how many responses would i receive should i show my abs on my avatar? hehe... abs of a crocodile

Well, we will never know unless you post it here. Why don't you try to find out the answer to that. I bet it will trigger an attention still.LOL

Hello, Drakesuyat. :-) Of course, I noticed a picture or two here which displays bare skin. However, this case hasn't happened to Mylot alone. I also saw pictures more revealing (with hardly nothing that covers the body at all) than this and same out come they do get, more responses/comments.:-) I'd like to say though that the mylotters who posted pictures with such genre have good discussions and I can say, their discussions are better than some, even than mine.LOL. I know for sure that they are not just a beautiful body without a brain.:-) So, I guess, it is their way of expressing themselves and people have picked it up easily more than the ordinary looking avatars.:-) Thank you, Drake. Have a great weekend.:-)

Lordofdarkness, hello there.:-) That depends on who is wearing a skimpy clothes. If she can carry it well, then definitely she will get a positive reaction. But, if it is awkwardly worn, well, sorry, I'd rather not look at her. But, yup. Wearing something really revealing is not much of a big deal anymore unlike the good old days.LOL. If she is your girlfriend, would you allow her to do so? I'm just wondering.

Hello, Benny:-) Well,I'm not really sure what the user's been thinking posting such picture but it surely works. Reality shows that facts. If it is a way to catch an attention and gain responses then, why not? That is for starter, however, you need to have good quality post to maintain a high ranking status or else you'll be considered as dumb bombshell... An appropriate attention can be gained depending on how creative you are. It is always a plus factor that aside from having skin to flaunt you have a brain to showcase, too. Thank you for sharing your views here.Have a great day.:-)

@Sexyangela: Beuaty is useless when you don't equipped it with an equally sexy brain. Flesh satisfies the eyes but it just a passing fancy thing. Once one exhaust all the benefits of such beauty, there will always a need to look for something more with a deeper substance and value. In our case here, it is the way how we convey our thoughts and emotions and the way we interact with other Mylotters.:-) Thanks for sharing sensible comments.:-) By the way, your avatar is cool:-)

You are correct, Faimei. There are still other ways to attract attention without risking yourself in getting malicious comments and thoughts in public. You have a logic there. True. If it is taken in a beach then it is understandable but if it is purposely taken in a private room and displayed in public then it is a different story. Unless you are a model of a lingerie.LOL Thank you for sharing some logic here. Have a wonderful day ahead.:-)

LOL. I don't have what it takes to show some bare skin. Personally, I can never do that.But, when I said that phrase I was referring to a ore gutsy person who has "it". If she/he can carry it well, then let her/him. But, not me.LOL Thank you, Brymel, for responding to this discussion. Have a great morning from the Philippines.:-)

Hello dear! Ha! ha! ha! Your question about my avatar picture sounds interesting. If I do not reveal to you whether it is my son or me or some else, will it make any difference to our interaction (I do not think so). (I would keep the suspense on for the time being........lol!) It is really heartening to know that it was my avatar which prompted you to accept my request for add at the first instance. You see having a good picture as an Avatar does help in getting attention, however to my mind, it helps in getting more responses only to some extent (say 10%). If I start giving you very brief responses to your posts and you also start doing the same, our relations will not strengthen and one day we may stop responding to each other. If I do not write meaningful and thought provoking ideas/views in my threads, I won't be able to survive for long, even if I have an excellent avatar. Avatar is just an identity of a user, so that we could identiy him/her quickly, wherever we see him/her on mylot. I agree with your point of creativity that one must come out with an attractive and catchy avatar and it helps in drawing others attention and those who do not have any avatar at all or those who have very simple avatar which do not draw any attention may be receiving less number of responses, compared to their expectations. I do not respond to a thread only on the basis of an Avatar, I respond only if I can relate to a post. And I'll continue to do so. deepak Have a wonderful day! :-)

Hello, My dear.:-) I was honest enough to tell you what my caught my attention.But, of course, the meaningful responses you gave is the main reason why I am always looking forward of reading your discussions or responses. But sure thing, my dear. A good avatar is a good way to catch attention, isn't it? Would you rather put something here as your avatar that appears dull instead of the picture profile of yours? I don't think so. YOu said it right that avatars do make us remember a friend or Mylotters in this case, as easily as possible. So, I can say that the picture or avatar has a purpose. Whatever it is, the rightful owner has every right to post it especially if his/her purpose is served well for doing so. I will always wonder if it just a baby from a magazine or yours. However, I'd like to repeat that your picture here makes me smile.:-)

Hello, my dear. I'm glad to see you here.:-) First thing first, Is that a picture of your son or yours as a baby? For that picture in your profile had first caught my attention. Making it hard for me to refuse you as a friend. I do agree with both of you in this aspect. Having an interesting picture or avatar in your profile HELPS you draw more attention but it is indeed the quality of your posts that will always matter. But, I'd say that I'll be more eager to reply to an interesting post( with sum and substance, if I may borrow your words for it) of a user who has an appealing avatar or picture,too. One way or another, one must show creativity in order to get noticed especially for the newbies here.It also works when adding a friend's request, don't you think? Have a wonderful week ahead, my dear.:-)

Hello, Ramesh.:-) Sometimes it is doubtful if the picture we are looking at is the person itself. However, for the sake of getting noticed, this thing seems to work well with some of us. I have a co member at a particular website that bares flesh more and more to generate more traffics for her articles. It is really working for you can see the number of posted comments under her articles.LOL You see, this type of publicity sometimes do wonders.And there are willing patrons of this kind of thing. Thank you for responding:-)

Hello, dear.:-) Anyone who has the guts can definitely do this. To use it for other means as to attract in a destructive way is not cool. And, yes it is more enticing to maintain a little mystery about yourself especially when it comes to our body of which we consider private. Personally, I'll not respond to a discussion or post of someone showing bare skin if that discussion has no sense at all. You might find it cheap (others will, too) but to the most males here they find it enjoyable , I bet.. We, women have a different perspective over things especially things like this than men do.:-) Thank you, my friend for sharing your private thought about this. I truly appreciate it.:-) Have a wonderful weekend ahead. God bless.:-)

Hello, Purplealabaster:-) With the way your avatar looks, you will surely catch and draw attention.Who wouldn't be able to notice those lovely bright colored flowers? :-) And, the way you express your thoughts, I'd say, it is exceptionally flawless and clear, it is a hundred percent thing that you can sustain one's user's interest for a very long period of time. :-) You are right, though, that there are pros and cons in putting such type of pictures, but, I guess it depends on how daring and open minded that person who owns it. If you can't take criticism and bitter consequence, then find other ways to get noticed. If you can pull off anything then, why not? Thank you for sharing your points of view here. Have a great week.:-)

Hello, Goodday.:-) Blame it to human nature, then.:-) Humans are prone to get attracted to what is not commonly seen. We tend to draw attention when we do something extra out of the ordinary especially if the outcome satisfies the eyes.:-) The thing here is as long as you are the only one who is directly affected by it and you are not somehow creating a negative environment because of what you are doing, then, I guess, it is ok to do such thing.:-) Have a great weekend. Thank you for the response.:-)

Hi there, Jayesh.:-) Like you I respond to a discussion not because I saw a bare flesh as the user's picture. It is because of the discussion itself. However, I must admit that I do noticed other user's discussion because of trheir profile pictures. Yup, there's nothing wrong with it. And, I don't think it is offensive to other users, too. The only person who might or might not get offended is the the owner of such picture. If it works then why not? Thank you for sharing your views. Have a great day ahead and happy mylotting.:-)

Hello.:-) Everybody has the right to do what they please especially with their own body. If they feel confident about it, then why not? Whatever their purpose maybe, as long as they are open with the consequence of their actions, there is nothing wrong to it. As you said, let them have fun if they find it fun at all. Body is just a passing thing, it will eventually rot, what counts and will prevail forever is the soul, indeed.:-) Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Have a great weekend.:-)

Hi there, Angellyn.:-) It is not just the guys who get curious about those pictures that show skin. I myself will admit that I got curious, one time or another to the person's real self when I saw her/his picture showing flesh/muscles. I wonder if she/he has something more to offer other than great abs or sexy figure.LOL Thus, checking all her discussion to dig up something more deeper about the person.It's effective way of getting noticed. Plus, there's nothing wrong if one is comfortable with her/his picture.:-) Thank you for sharing your views. Have a wonderful week ahead.:-)

Hello,Abhikmjmdr:-) Publicity and being creative is one way to get more attention and to survive the competition. Anyhoo, getting more users to respond to your discussion is the main reason for posting, isn't it? Other than just sharing a thought or two here? Well, it is somehow working to some of the users, and they are not offended so, there's no harm really in doing that.:-) Thank you for sharing your thoughts.:-)

I have noticed it lately. Not that I am complaining because I enjoyed watching those pictures,too. No malice or pun intended, of course.:-) Thank for sharing your thoughts, Wizteen. Happy Mylotting:-)

Hello, Cowboyofhell:-) Yup, sometimes people do stuff for the sake of avoiding a grim situation. And you have a point there that we tend to look to a more lighter picture or thing than that that represents a more serious picture. Sometimes, the pictures says something about the person's real self, too. So, there's nothing wrong with posting such type of picture in one's page.:-) Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Have a great day.:-)