In what situation will you say "I LOVE YOU GOODBYE"?...
By krystalheart
@krystalheart (842)
Philippines
January 24, 2010 12:21pm CST
Hi there,
Have you heard that song entitled "I love you goodbye" originally from Celine Dion's album?.. I love that song so much that I keep wondering how can the song writer wrote such a lovely musical lyrics. Maybe he/she has an experienced which inspired him/her to wrote that song.
I like the part "leaving someone, when you love someone is the hardest thing to do..."
for the reason that I had a love experienced that I have loved two different people... and that you only have to choose one... so it is really one of the hardest part, and all I can say to the one that I did not chose is that "I love you goodbye".
So...do you also have a love story that you have said "I love you goodbye"... or in your opinion, what could be the other situation that will let you say those words?...
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@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
24 Jan 10
...and that is quite true.
It is a good idea that you let the best man wins if you are undecided about your feelings. But if you know who is the best one for you... then saying goodbye to one of them is really one of the hardest part especially if you still have a little feelings with him.
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@lipstick2009 (1236)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
I love that song , its one of my favorites.
That would be best background for a love story wherein its better to leave and start moving on, than staying and just prolonging the pain.
Its when u love so much, that you have to say goodbye because of the way u feel.
Its when love just makes u cry always, instead of inspiring you more.
Its when u become the person you are scared of, instead of becoming a better one.
@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
yes you are right... it is a song about loving someone who is better than the other and loving your self too. It is also about letting go of someone you love, but because someone is more better than him/her and this someone is the one that makes your day complete. You should set things free even if it hurts you when you know that is the best thing to do... so saying "I love you goodbye" is the right thing to do.
@cajunmomma (624)
• United States
25 Jan 10
I feel that if I felt the relationship wasn't fixable and I still loved that person, I would probably say that to them. I love that song too. I have done this before, but only because I did not trust the man even though he will always have a piece of my heart, becuase he was my first love. Now I see it was for the best. I still love him, but I don't think that it would have worked out. Our situations at the time were totally different and I think that he was in my life at the time for a reason and it was time we both moved on.
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@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
Trust is very important in any relationship. If trust was gone, relationship will surely fails. Loving and trusting someone is a very wonderful feeling, but if the one who love has taken your love and trust for granted... then saying goodbye is a good way to move on.
@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
24 Jan 10
Hello, I have not experienced that kind of situation yet. But if this situation happens to me, perhaps it would be difficult and kind a hurtful on my part since I am going to say goodbye to the one that I loved for the sake of choosing the other person that I also truly loved.
Since we cannot love two people at the same time, we need to choose one between the two. Choosing is the hardest part since we might be able to choose the wrong person over the right person. It is like choosing the best one between the two of them. Getting over with the other person we loved, not knowing it was the best.
@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
Yes it is... that is quite true. Choosing and leaving someone over someone when you both love them is the hardest thing to do. You have to be ready in heart and mind which is the right one for you... that in the end you will not regret saying "I love you goodbye".
@celticeagle (164045)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jan 10
If there is abuse. If there are extreme issues then leave. Leaving when you care deeply about someone is very hard but it has to happen if there are issues that cannot be erased or addressed in a working manner. If both parties won't work to eradicate an issue then one or the other needs to leave the situation.
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@celticeagle (164045)
• Boise, Idaho
5 Feb 10
You leave. No love martyr. Just learn from it and don't make the same mistake again.
@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
... and yes it is, quite true... how can you stay to someone who abuses all your love, someone who gives you too much pain and sorrow, and someone who just taken you for granted. It is better to leave than be a love martyr. Love is really a wonderful feeling especially if it is all about give and take, and not just give and give.. or take and take.
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@freymind (1351)
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
when you are not happy with him any more.
even if you love him there are just things that can't make you stay.
when I broke up with my ex-bf he told me not to leave him. because he said I was his world and that I'am his happiness.
I answered him back by asking him, what if I'm not happy any more?
how can I love you if I don't want to be with you any more since you bring me pain and sorrow???
you love him but love is not enough... we need to take care of what we have...
unfortunately, he didn't took care of that love...
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@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
Hi there, yes its quite true... how can you love a person who gives you too much sorrow and pain. I guess it is right to say goodbye when you had enough of everything and you feel that you are not happy anymore with him. Sometimes, the person you love has just taken you for granted that in time you will then be tired of everything he had done to you... and you will definitely feel unhappy with him... when that time comes... surely, that person who did not see your value will then realized your importance but it was too late... coz that time love has gone away. ![](/Content/images/emotes/sad.gif)
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@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
i really loved that song specially the Celine Dion's version. the melody and the lyrics really stick on our minds. i guess the composer was inspired doing it or maybe he/she undergoes that situation but anyways it was really fabulous.
as for me when u say "i love you goodbye" to somebody is when u love that person but u think he loves some body else. its really hard specially when u still loves and cares for that person but things made u not to be together anymore. i like the part of the song "living someone when u loved someone is the hardest thing to do, when u love someone as much as i love you". it just happen to me personally, when my last relationship ended. its really hard to leave someone when u still love him just bec some personal choices happen to be made. but things are better now at least for both of us.
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@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
It is really a selfless love. You leave the person you love not just for your self but also for him because you love him. You let go because you want the best for both of you, which is totally a selfless love.
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
28 Jan 10
I guess from the lyrics itself its hard to say I love you goodbye. That is the saddest thing that will ever happen to a certain person. Maybe that is the only way so that they will avoid to prolong to hurt. Maybe she is leaving him because that is the only solution to the problems they are facing. Maybe when they get separated that is the only way to be strong. I never says that line, I never had a relationship. I just sing the song and cry with it, because the lyrics are so sad. that is the themesong mostly of the lovers that are got separated.
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@myliezl0903 (2726)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
hi there krystal! to tell you honestly, recently just broke up with my long time boyfriend ., and i would say that it is indeed hard to say goodbye to someone you really love ., but to be able to work on it ., both of you shall fight.,in everything you will encounter you have to hold on to ., and trust each other .,
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@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
Yes it is so hard to leave someone you had love for a long period of time, but if you tried harder and still something is always wrong... then that's really a time of letting go...even if you love him.
@grace118224 (1038)
• China
25 Jan 10
I don't think i have got any chance to say" I love you goodbye" according to what you mean about the love affairs . However when everyday i leave my little kid to go to work i will kiss him and say to him " i love you. Bye bye" He is still too young to understand what i say now i think. But i love to do that.
@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
...wow, that's one sweet way of saying i love you goodbye. Even if he still that young, I believe that he could feel how much you love him.
@ireneomiralles (38)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
Oh, saying goodbye to a friend---a priest, whom I idolized, was hurting, deep inside, I said, I love you, goodbye. Saying it is closing one chapter in my life, but I continue praying for his wellness.
Goodbyes to the ones we love is sacrifice, but life has to move on, and after many years, we find fulfillment in other things we do. I believe there is always sunshine after the rain.
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@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
...yes saying I love you goodbye to the one we truly love or to the one who is so special is really one of the saddest and hardest part of life. But life must move on... so its better to let things go and fulfill other things that is waiting for you.
@nothing2009 (22)
• China
25 Jan 10
Love itself is difficult to everyone.Facing the situation where you have to say goodbye to the one you love,you have to stand pressure and saddness.In the first place,you must overcome yourself.Saying goodbye is always hard.Love should not be performed as restriction.Perhaps letting him or her go is a better choice for your love to him or her.
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@vinabee (85)
• China
25 Jan 10
someone often say that if you met the right people at the right time,please fall in love with him,if you met the rithr people at the wrong time,please tell him ,i love you, but googbye. i agree on this argue,and i think everybody should learn to say goodbye at the wrong time such as the lover is in marriage,or is in another relationship, although you love him very much.
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@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
...and that is definitely right. Leaving someone you love is the hardest thing to do. But if its a wrong time and love, let it go before it hurts you badly. I like what you have said that meeting the right person in the right time is the best time to fall in love.
@bamikalipal (588)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
Hi krystalheart,
Love is caring for a person more than you even care for yourself. Yes, "it's sad to belong to someone when the right one comes along." What else can you say but "walk away, please go before you throw your life away, a life that I could share for just a day." So, it's "I love you, goodbye."
Sad, isn't it, but besides belonging to someone else, a person may have a commitment to his/her family and wants to keep it intact.
Sad, but such is life. Welcome to the club, krystalheart.
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@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
yes it is one of the saddest part of life... saying goodbye to the one you love. This song inspires of having a selfless love by leaving someone you also love for the good sake of everyone.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
30 Mar 10
Hello i have not heard this song, i wonder why a person can love two persons, may be well, it depends, in that case one has to leave one and stick to just one, telling " I LOVE YOU GOOD BYE"
Thanks for this discussion
Prof
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