my cousin!!!

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hi..i have a cousin,,far away from me..we email everyday ..to communicate....so ..i have two issues with her.....one in my mom --her aunt--my mom is a nursing home and she is fine for the most part ..lucid..wonderful woman---she does have health issues --i see my mom about three times a week and talk to her everyday!!my mom and my cousin were at one time very close....now my cousin --i will call her mary? ...anyway --they used to talk a lot .,my mom used to visit her and mom practically raised her ..was there for her...etc etc....so 'mary'..since then has left her hubby moved on and has been a caregiver to three other people ..i begged her to come visit my mom and she promised...but now her latest person she is taking care of is her boyfriends mom...she gets paid//and her husbahd was sicker ..she left him..and whined the whole time .how he was so difficult,...ok sooo the problem is i will mention mom ..she wont say anything she never asks about her and goes on and on about how she is so lovng this woman....meanwhile she doesnt call my mom ..and it hurts me...i will say ..i saw mom we did this and that ...nothing!!!!she has adhd also and cleans like crazy..i am worn out a lot and have knee surgery coming up....she NEVER stops telling me what work she did and sends me pics of her place all 'clean'..she knows i am unable to do a lot...ok so am i being petty and forgive her or???? thanks for reading