what will you do? when you are in love??
@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
India
6 responses
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
24 Jan 10
Well you know, were the ones getting married and not our parents. But do try to listen to your parents as well, try to understand and be open minded, I mean, why don't they want that person for you. Parents always wants the best for us. But if you do see that they are wrong, then try talking to them and comfort them and tell them that it'll be okay.
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@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
• India
25 Jan 10
yup i agree you all u said is done but if religion is diffirent and parents wont agree because of religion so what to do i am confused ?????
@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
• India
26 Jan 10
in that only i am getting confused how i can make my parents agreee they wont because of religion and caste and i cant leave parents because they have fulfil all me needs from my chilhood till now and how can i leave them alone they need me my support in their grad age now they have made me big till now to leave them alone and go away no i cant leave them but i really love her and i wanna marry her and she also have same problem with her family her parents will also not agree because of religion and caste so i am getting confused what to do but i dont want to lose her she the one true love she the one only for me ????
@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
• India
26 Jan 10
i cant leave parents because they have fulfil all me needs from my chilhood till now and how can i leave them alone they need me my support in their grad age now they have made me big till now to leave them alone and go away no i cant leave them but i really love her and i wanna marry her and she also have same problem with her family her parents will also not agree because of religion and caste so i am getting confused what to do but i dont want to lose her she the one true love she the one only for me????
@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
• India
26 Jan 10
i cant leave parents because they have fulfil all me needs from my chilhood till now and how can i leave them alone they need me my support in their grad age now they have made me big till now to leave them alone and go away no i cant leave them but i really love her and i wanna marry her and she also have same problem with her family her parents will also not agree because of religion and caste so i am getting confused what to do but i dont want to lose her she the one true love she the one only for me????
@Thiala (101)
• United States
28 Jan 10
Well I have to ask this , have your parents been around her a lot and have they really got to know her ? If they really haven't had that opportunity and if they are ok with this maybe you could take her to see them a lot and let them see what a nice girl she is , so maybe they will start to like her too . Oh also if you haven't been around her parents a lot maybe you could try the same thing with them too . I don't know if this will work but it's just a idea that I thought of .
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@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
I was in love alone and it happens many times already. However, it did not lead to getting married as being me inlove was just a secret. Being love brings a different glow in everyone, as they are always happy when they see their special someone,but it is not always happiness that is involved as there are problems too. It is a great feeling when you are inlove, how I wish all people be inlove and find their happiness.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
7 Apr 11
Hi. amar_sandy1987. If this guy and I really love each other and if he treats me right, I will go for my decision. I will not stop loving or marrying this guy just because my parents forbid it. If I am grown and responsible as a woman, I will make my own decisions. I also will have to live with the great outcome or the consequences of this marriage too.
@purplerain01 (107)
• United States
24 Jan 10
Hello. In my opinion there is no choice, I would leave my parents. I believe if your parents or family can't be happy for you then that is their problem. I look at it like this, most family members don't get along with their in-laws. Of course, there are certain things to consider like whether the person is good to you, if you are old enough to make the right decision, and if you are certain that the person is the right person. I know love is a huge question and many people wonder if they have truly found the right person or not, but in reality if you have the right person that question never crosses your mind because it is something that you just know, believe it or not. A rule of thumb that is good to use is whether or not you can say I would die for my family, and even kill for them, but I can't live for them, but for the one I love I could and would do all three.
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@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
• India
25 Jan 10
hhmm yup you are right but how can you leave your parents alone they need your support and till now from your chilhood they have fulfil your needs so cand you fulfil their need now when you are young but you also love truely from your hear i am getting confused
@sushie93 (1355)
• France
24 Jan 10
I would leave parents.
Its what my dad did when his parents wasn't agree with him when he wanted to marry with my mother.
Now, he has forget most of members of his family, moreover, his family is very bad, it's only people who like influencing others, who are rich and did the contest of "Who is the richest?", ect... So i'm happy i don't know them!
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@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
• India
24 Jan 10
hey you have the reason of your dad hey if u love your parents more and they also love you so much they have fulfil all your dreams till now from childhood they are looking behind you will you leave them in a second!!! for a person whom you have started love few days before and what about your parents they are loving you from your childhood