Do you have the habit on meddling your Boyfriend's Ex-Girlfriend?
By sexyposh
@sexyposh (575)
Philippines
January 24, 2010 9:41pm CST
Funny, there are times that I don't understand myself, and that time is now. My boyfriend and I been together for more than 3 years now and yet I still feel a bit insecure, specially if the topic is his Ex. There is nothing wrong with my boyfriend,he already cut his communication with her because of my crazy jelousy. I am the one who has this weird obsession on meddling his Ex-Girlfriend's life.. and I don't know why??
My dear MyLotters, are you also meddling your present's - ex's lives? just wondering.. lols!!! Happy MyLotting!!!
5 responses
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
I think that's really funny. haha! But maybe in my case I am not the one meddling with my husband's ex-girlfriend, she's the one meddling with my affairs. I dont understand why she does that. I confronted her not to meddle with us (not directly to us but my husband's family) anymore because I think it is very inappropriate for her to do that and she was very mad at me when I told her that. She even told me I am the one insecure and and with a small mind.
Imagine! How can I be the one insecure in this situation I am not the one meddling. And I really dont understand why she's doing that. She even put me into shame when she told my mother-in-law she treated hr badly even though we did not. Geez!
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
Yeah! I think she's crazy. She's trying to get back into the game. What she's doing really annoys me. But I dont do anything anymore because I know what kind of person that she is. Actually, she was ignored by my in-laws after she put me to shame. She was actually thinking they are in favor of her. But I'm okay, my in-laws know me better so it doesn't affect them whatever it is that she's going to tell them.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
hello sexyposh...
uhmmmmm...i can relate to this! haha well i am already married to him but i remember when we are not yet married...oh oh...he got a lot of headaches from me...coz like you i am a bit...just a bit insecure about his past gf...and i am one jealous gf...haha which i really hates about me but can't do anything about it. usually that attitude of mine starts a misunderstanding or even fights between us...
now that we are already married..there is still some time that i do those craziness...i don't know why but there are times that i feel like his ex's stories is my favorite topic to talk about but he don't like...haha and sometimes i even tease him on them...hehe bad me! but deep inside i am also hurting...and my husband? he just keep quite as a sign that he don't like what i am doing...
now that we are already married..there is still some time that i do those craziness...i don't know why but there are times that i feel like his ex's stories is my favorite topic to talk about but he don't like...haha and sometimes i even tease him on them...hehe bad me! but deep inside i am also hurting...and my husband? he just keep quite as a sign that he don't like what i am doing...@sexyposh (575)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
haha!! like we're totally the same.. Talking about his Ex was my favorite topic. I also tease him whenever we talk about the past, but it always end up that I get piss.. Sometimes I nose unto his emails and social networks profiles just to check if his ex still leaves some message. To my disappointment, I found nothing.. hehe.. And sometimes just to be entertained, I always chech his ex's profile thru his account then read her blogs and other post.. And if I found out something I immediately report to my boyfriend, then he gets annoyed.. haha!!
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
haha...its like reading about myself! huh! coz i am also like that! i even browse on his friend's list on his social networks hoping to see his exes on his lists! but to my disappointment, i saw no one! and to my dismay, what i do is to search those girls...haha and look at their profiles & just read anything about them. i know its a good thing that i don't see anyone on his list coz if i do, i know that i will be upset & mad on him! hehe silly!
but i don't read his mails even if i know his passwords. but when we are not yet married, i always oh well not really always check on the messages on his phone...haha and when i saw unknown number to me...ahem! interrogation follows!
those silly things are quite fun & entertaining but at the same time, annoying!
@soulist (2985)
• United States
30 Jan 10
There are times when i feel insecure about my boyfriend's ex because she is still a big part of his life only because they have children together. He is divorced from her and we are planning on getting married. But I still get insecure that he would take her back if she ever tried something although I know he never would. Whenever he talks about her, I get quiet and worried, I would ask questions and he is good at always reminding me that he loves me and wants to be with me.
@sexyposh (575)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
If I felt a little bit like this doesn't mean I don't love my boyfriend anymore.. Maybe because I'm just human, I know to myself that I'm not perfect. I have qualities that his Ex don't have and she has qualities that I don't have and that made me a bit insecure..
Maybe if you're in a relationship too, you might feel the same way... thanks for your comment though... :)
