Who changed whom?
By pengyachu
@pengyachu (296)
China
January 26, 2010 2:25am CST
It is inevitable for a couple to have conflict and undergo adjustment.Who changed more in the relationship?Are you willing to change yourself for love or do you have to make some confession and change because you have to during the change?What will the change bring to your relationship?Talk about the story of your lover.
3 responses
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
26 Jan 10
Conflicts and adjustments are of necessity for a relationship to work. We do change for the better or for the worse, either which way this really affects us. For me, it is important that even when you dont seem to agree on something, and you or she/he also doesnt seem to give in, then the best option is to "compromise", meaning to meet halfway for whatever is causing the conflict. Happy lotting my friend..
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
26 Jan 10
I agree particularly with you on this point of view as to why it is neccessary to change in life especially after marriage of so. The need to change according to circumstances is the need of time and situation by which one has to change himself for there may be no fighting or conflicts with one another in any relationship of some what. Compromise is the biggest example to remove conflicts from ones life of so.
@MimiRemo (418)
• Philippines
26 Jan 10
I have never changed myself for love, I would rather want to be accepted for what I am all throughout the relationship. I don't change but I compromise. I only do some amends to myself for the better due to self-realizations, not because my boyfriend wants me to. A wonderful relationship will be maintained through compromise and give-and-take.
@sofmap (25)
• Japan
26 Jan 10
In a good relationship, both people benefit from each other's nurturing. In that way, they become better people because of each other's influence, just like iron sharpening iron.
